I'd say move on. I'd never be able to trust someone who NSNC especially when you arrive at the location. I'm sure her reviews, or reaching out to those who have reviewed her may help understand why the provider does this.
I'm having trouble booking with this provider that has excellent reviews. I've set up an appointment several times only to be stood up each time when I get to the location. Trying to figure out if this is normal behavior and if it makes sense to book her again.
You've been stood up several time. I guess that's enough to go different direction. Xo
..and you are asking if you should try again. This is a joke right.
I feel the same way Its just all these great reviews she has makes me wonder if its personal or bad luck
How can it possibly be personal unless you pissed her off in your communications and even then she repeatedly said yes. Let it the go.
It's happen to me.
The good thing there are plenty of great options. Don't waste time or reward selfish unreliability .
Depending on the girl, I would only give her ONE chance to make it up to me after a NCNS. Two girls did, and they turned out great, one did not as I think I have only had 3 NCNS. Several last minute cancels, but only 3 NCNS's.
The girl, after the first NCNS should have apologized and made you some kind of discounted offer to see you. But since she NCNS you again, to go back to her now, a third time, would then say more about you then her.
Don't let her play you like a fool again.
One chance...
I've only been NCNS once and she made it up to me in an unforgettable fashion...had she done it again it's bye bye baby...
For me, letting it go and giving the girl a second chance has worked for me.
I was rewarded two times for going down that road and one time the girl just disappeared but that was ages ago.
Two out of 3 aint bad and I thought the sessions with the two were spectacular so you never know what can transpire if you give somebody the chance to make it right with you.
Friday brain lock...maybe I should stop posting anything until next week...
She did apologize and sweared it would not happen again then told me the next day we should meet. Then texted me the next day to confirm but when i got to the location. No reply This is like the 4th time. I'm a sucker for a phatass latina but her professionalism sucks
I ain't no sucka. She had at the time reasons that seemed legitimate and there were 2 separate occasions. Last year and this week. Said she saw the doctor and it ran overboard and the next day had someone texting me that she was in the hospital. Only thing is that was similar to the story last year too. If I really was to tell the whole story it would seem like something outta a movie. Tried to get an explanation and got no reply. I haven't posted her info because I'm not with all that drama. But I'm tight that she didn't even give a proper explanatio
I'd say move on. I'd never be able to trust someone who NSNC especially when you arrive at the location. I'm sure her reviews, or reaching out to those who have reviewed her may help understand why the provider does this.
Things happen! Maybe It just wasn't meant to be or you probably scared her off! So much scary stuff is happening with guys lying and raping women can definitely put a well reviewed woman on the edge. If she's that well reviewed it could be something that turned her off
Move on!
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He did mention that he is trying hard to book with this girl.
When a guy is persistent, trying to book with me, it makes me queasy about accepting the appointment.
Maybe she checked his profile (and saw that he's a low scores guy) or she got put off for his insistence in booking with her.
Maybe she booked every time to get him off her back....then thought cancelling at the last minute would make him stop the pursue.
I've had guys being persistent on booking with me...but I had a bad vibe coming from them - even after screening - and I kept giving excuses (Im busy with family, dog, neighbor etc - until they took the hint and stop bothering me).
Is not all about the benjamins and we - as independents - are not pressured to take just any guy for the money. We just don't want to see certain people.
Remember, there are 3 sides of the story - his, hers and the truth.
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I'm sorry that just sounds childish. If you have "bad vibes" just say so. There's nothing wrong with saying you don't want to see someone. The client will have their money and you'll have your time, no harm done but professionalism should always be present in any form of business. Oh and there's a difference between cancelling last minute and being stood up.
Maybe she's on drugs. Gosh, how could anyone does something like that 3-4 times. Maybe once is enough. I would apologize silly even after the first time. Never a NCNS since started. Since I'd not want anyone to do this to me.
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Hello gentlemen, I hope you don't mind if I make a comment. I just happen to stumble across this post. Getting stood up is not a pleasant feeling when it happens to you. It is VERY VERY disrespectful. It happens to us ladies often. I just don't understand why anyone rather it be a man or a lady can't have enough courtesy to at least pick up the phone and let someone know that they have a change of heart and can not go through the appt. I just had it happen to me today. I had another gentleman who wanted to visit with me during the same time. That being said, I lost money. It is a matter of respect and common courtesy. There were plenty of times that when I guy booked with me over the 9 years that I have been a provider where I had second thoughts because either they made me feel uneasy about them or perhaps were disrespectful to me. I always let them know that I had a change of heart and cancel immediately. I am proud to say that during the time I have been a provider, I have never ever stood anyone up. My reputation is very important to me and besides I am not the type to disrespect someone in that fashion. I wish both the ladies and the gentlemen would show more respect to one another and learn from this.
Hugs,
Juliette
booked with Scarlet Sinclair at Bella Amour she canceled me as I was on the way there, so I git screwed for someone else paying more lol to book another client through her Agent in Dubai.
I get it I do but then to think I will come later to fit in your schedule ha not happening. So if you see her begging for beans somewhere else think twice you may next that she stands up for a BBD
The agency was great and felt bad and to their credit removed her from their site and schedule.
So maybe this girl got a better offer both times. I would move on there are plenty of options that would be grateful to take your money
my 2 cnts
With the ladies I know best.
That being said, after two tries without success, move on. Don't try to guess the reason...just move forward.