All great points, including the obvious need for disclosure on both sides, timing, etc. I appreciate the comments, and just want to clarify a couple of points. This is for my own activity, with her blessing, and not a threesome. Also, I'm always safety first, so was not seeking anything BB. Sorry for any confusion.
Recently I've playfully hinted to my significant other my interest of seeing other women intimately. After some back and forth about the idea, we came to the conclusion that seeing "professional" women may be the ideal solution (the best choice). I've been hobbying for a few years now, but it's exciting to receive the occasional free pass. Her only caveat was that the provider be able to prove she's healthy and clean.
* Before I ask the question, I know the below request could easily be reversed, and asked of the hobbyist. I hope to avoid any such reactions or comments, and stay positive and light-hearted in tone.
So the question is this: as providers, would you mind if a hobbyist asked to see some sort of proof of health—your most up-to-date test results (STDs, etc—forgive my directness)? Do providers partake in any such routine for testing?
My thanks in advance.
How are you going to know the results that are being shown to you are that of the provider you will be seeing? Because I am pretty sure she will not want to show you her ID to match the name on the paper.
Tests are only as good as the exact time they were taken and then extend 3 months in addition for anything to actually appear. Meaning, if the provider had sex with someone who is contagious 1 day before the blood test drawing, then the potential for infection appearing will be at least another 90 days. So a test is only as good as complete abstention for at least 90 days and then another retest for proof positive negative results.
This is their biz, so do you really believe that they will close upshop for at least 90 days and then retest?
Porn stars, and some girls who offer BBFS, will put on their web sites that recent test results are required and they will share their results with you.
But I wouldn't expect it from someone who doesn't advertise such. Sharing such results also involves showing ID and sharing real names, I would think. You won't get that from most women.
and pray tell who actually advertises that they offer BBFS?
Just because TER doesn't allow such mentions in reviews doesn't mean it's not all over the Internet.
Hell, Escort-Site even has "CID (Come In Deep)" listed as one of their acronyms in services that girls offer.
I wouldn't. Its my personal life and well escorts are UTR so to speak a porn star is not.
Most reputable ladies get regular testing just to be safe. I go every few months for a throat culture and STD test or if I feel I need to go sooner..
Protection is used no matter what the results would be.. Id still use protection if you showed me clean results. You are not my SO you are a client. For one of my reasons below, you are not 100% safe unless you abstain..
How do you know I didnt catch something within days prior to the appointment with you and the SO even though Monday I had clean results and now its Saturday I saw 3 clients.. you're not scheduled till that Monday.. Are you going to pay me for days of time off not to be with other clients for a week or more to ensure Im still "clean"?
Im sure there are ladies that will though, you will just have to be select and put the time into searching.. and you have a better chance of a clean hooker than a civi lady, hookers get tested way more often that civi.. I know i didnt get tested as much before this line of work..
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All great points, including the obvious need for disclosure on both sides, timing, etc. I appreciate the comments, and just want to clarify a couple of points. This is for my own activity, with her blessing, and not a threesome. Also, I'm always safety first, so was not seeking anything BB.
-- Modified on 9/20/2011 3:46:23 PM
Does that mean BAREBACK? Seriously, if you want to do that then get a regular person not in this hobby and have your STD- ree affair by showing each other your HIV free papers. The only time you can get STD's is if you are not protected. Other than that, buyer beware. I still believe that most providers look after themselves much better than the girl sitting next to you at the bar. I for one, would be appalled if a client asked for my up to date tests. Obviously, safe sex is the best - so if you want more than that, maybe this isn't the right arena for you to play in.
Good luck!
All great points, including the obvious need for disclosure on both sides, timing, etc. I appreciate the comments, and just want to clarify a couple of points. This is for my own activity, with her blessing, and not a threesome. Also, I'm always safety first, so was not seeking anything BB. Sorry for any confusion.
With my I.D. Number and not my name. Still no guarantee that
Giving you the correct number but all partys involved can get instantly tested for 5 different STD's via blood sample in Chelsea. It takes 2 hours. You will receive HIV results on the spot and have to wait 7 days for the rest in which you retrieve online with your issued number.
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