ok...this is just starting to get ridiculous......IMHO.....the 10/10's that are being given out on this site are getting ridiculous. I have read the prior posts on this subject and I understand that some of the ladies kinda of...uh how can I say this.....nudge the guys to post high for them...but it's really getting ridiculous. Some of the reviews of ladies I have seen or know from chance meetings while seeing others are getting nuts. Granted I may be a pretty stiff reviewer ( since I would rather be straight on for the others as opposed to giving input that really isn't useful to guys trying to make a decision on how to spend there valuable time and funds ) but I pretty much call em as I see em, and a lot of these ladies are definitely a lower rating maybe 8/8's or so. I don't get why these guys wouldn't just not post and avoid the whole situation ( if they are worried about the harassement from ladies ),than posting something that is not dead on or close to it. Seriously how many women actually give these guys favors for posting 10/10's for them and even if it's once is that really worth it ??!!! Wouldn't we all want this to be more spot on than actually doing stuff for favors ( since obviously if one does it, more than likely other guys do and then we have negated the usefulness of this type of forum ). I don't know it's just my opinion , and I guess it is just a bad day or something, for me, and I just happened to be searching the latest reviews.

You are spot on Sonny.
Strings of 10/10's is just not realistic, especially 10's for appearance. A 10 is supposed to mean 'one in a lifetime'. And with our tastes varying so much from person to person, how could anyone take seriously a list of reviews where every guy thought she was 'once in a lifetime' material? I certainly can not.

Strings of 10/10's are a red flags for me.
Just my 2 sens.

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OK ... I'm posting this in response to some of the PM's and e-mails I have received and I thank you all for them and your responses they are as always greatly appreciated and helpful. The point is yes we all have our own tastes but the fact that these women who I have seen that I am talking about are constantly scoring 10/10's is beyond belief....I just want to add that I by no means have any delusions of grandeur but I feel that I have seen many many beautiful women and I have also seen many many fantastic providers who offer outstandin service. I just don't think that it is possible for there to be that many 10/10's . I also want to add that a score of 9/9 should be have almost any woman going off the charts with joy , knowing that someone thought she was model beautiful and made us forget we were paying....I mean isn't that what it's all about......In all my reviews if I remember correctly .... and yes sometimes my memory is FAULTY.....I believe I have only given one 10/10 in all these years and it was at the beginning of my hobbying career and I really thought for me she was without a doubt ONCE IN A LIFETIME ...and funny thing ...turns out to date....SHE WAS !!! lol......ok ...still hoping to find another possibly but if I don't, I gotta tell you a 9/10 or 9/9 or even an 8/9 it doesnt matter if she reaches close to a 9 in performance ...who am  I to judge looks I'd probably be down the scale if the ladies got their chance to review but I always try to make up for it in performance ...( I'm no prize ) I have had a great time !!.....have a great one all.... happy hobbying

I don't give much credence to the numerical ratings or the reviews themselves for that matter. Unless they are consistently abysmal or there is evidence of a scam, etc. I don't think  they are a fair representation of the lady in question. Sometimes, the ratings are low not necessarily because of the lady but because the guy in question was such a jerk during the session that the lady was just not "into it" with him. In her mind she kept saying to herself ("just cum and go already; just cum and go").

As far as someone writing a review for a date with you or anyone that never happened - why would anyone do that? Unless it's to write so many reviews per month keep their membership active?

I think a lot of it has to do with presentation, my reviews seem consistently higher when I had the time and opportunity to go all out with the lingerie. I can't figure it out, I'm pretty happy with my mostly 9s and 10s and would like to kick the dude who gave me an 8 in performance when he admits in the review that he was drunk, almost 2 hours late and was even surprised I still managed to make him cum!
What a fucktard.  

We're all confused

Anna Faire xx

but I just gave my first 10/10, ever! And to be honest, it was because I have never felt that good EVER while doing the dirty, I know some of you might not agree, and it was a "click" thing, but to be honest, I gave my honest rating. I think what should be taken into consideration is how many 10/10 are given and credibility of the reviewer.....some hobbyist who have been around forever know me and know if I give a girl 7 or 8, well, she is probably a 7 or 8. Just my 2 cents.

Anna, please don't fret over a single review which pops up every now and then. As you mention you get 9s and 10s consistently - one drunk asshole is not going to make a difference in that.  I think every one appreciates who you are and what you provide. I look at ratings just as a general guideline; more for consistency. One idiot rating doesn't matter. Yes, the process is confusing - too subjective and relies too much on individual reviewer's mood, sobriety, etc. during the session. Unfortunately, there is no other option on how to distinguish the performance of individual ladies. This is a competitive environment like other areas of our economy and everything runs on "customer satisfaction surveys"
so this industry isn't any different.
Now put your arms around yourself and give yourself a big hug from me. Feel better?

Giggles, you gave your honest opinion; that's all that matters. Everyone has different opinions about what is a "10"; some may consider that a "perfect" score and never give out anything higher than a "9".
Likewise a "7" or "8", as long as you try to be objective and consistent.
Take care, play hard and stay safe

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I've recently posted my two first 10/10s ever.  For me a 10/10 isn't just about the pure physical looks.  It's how it all clicks.  Someone I have a connection with has a more attractive look than one I don't.  Hence the 10/10.  It's about chemistry and connections not just pure physical looks and acts.  That said there have been times when after a few visits I sometimes would like to downgrade a rating but I don't know how to do that.  BTW, Kate Jacobs is still my 10/10/

Aw... I'm blushing now! Thanks Sweetie!

For everyone else, I'm one of the culprits that pm'd the op vs responding here. It's too easy for a girl to get s*** on a topic like this when she herself has a string of 10/10's. My conclusion in the pm was that you guys totally have the short end of the stick on this one, and that sucks!

There are some women who carefully cultivates her market and really is a 10 to those she she's because she makes sure to be all of that. Then there are those that beg, barter and steal.

While I've been publicly accused of those negative actions (offering discounts, blackmailing, etc) those who have spent time with me- generally even just via initial emails- realize it was put out there by someone simply wanting to hurt me.

To bring my personal situation back to the original post, how is that some girls get those scores by so many people with so many tastes? Who knows? I'm convinced that if I suddenly opened the gates and became high value I would NOT have the scores I do. I meet 1-3 new gentlemen per month and I make sure that via screening and communication we're right for one another. Just cause a guy screens well and is safe doesn't mean I'll see him. But if I were to? There's no way in HELL that I'd be able to be a 10 to everybody. My looks are somewhat unique and I'm not a convention beauty. There are things I'm not always interested in doing. Being as selective as I am to root out people I'll get along with, I AM a 10/10. But if I were to spend time with a broader section of personalities... I bet I'd be in the 7's or 8's. No one can be everything to everyone. But someone can be everything to some.

I wish for all your sakes that there were a better way to sift out the deserving and the cheaters. Tread carefully guys.... I'm sorry that you guys do have it difficult when it comes to this matter. You either get disappointed over and over again, or you miss out on someone genuine. Either way it's unfair!

Kiss me,

Kate

OhOh - you are not alone. My dates with Kate Jacobs have forever redefined for me what a 10/10 is all about.
Kate stated "There are some women who carefully cultivates her market and really is a 10 to those she sees because she makes sure to be all of that". Some of us men do the same thing. We seek the women who for us will be the perfect companions:  for me that means warm, genuine, attractive ( beauty is the eyes of the beholder) and who can provide me with an emotionally satisfying yet unsurpassed sexual encounter. Kate has done that for me!
When I gave her a 10/10 I could not have been more honest or more sincere. To me (emphasis on "to me") she is the epitome of what that score represents. It's too bad that some people of both genders abuse the reviews. Which takes us back to  Kate's wise advice to all of us -  do our research, and chose the provider or client that will be a good match for you.

Far be it for me to tell anyone else what an 8 or 9 or 10 is.  That's ludicrous.  The only thing you can do is index how a reviewer rates to how you rate, and then account for the differences when reading his reviews.  That's really it.

I will say that my experience in reading reviews by the guys who hand them out frequently is that they look for the "connection," and that special connection and ingredient factors into the appearance score.  Now, again, what a 10 is to one person is not necessarily a 10 to another person, but the point is that reviewers who often give the coveted 10/10 scores frequently...well, I find that the appearance score is frequently "padded" because of the "connection" quality.

In other words, a girl who is rated 10/10 by a guy who gives them out frequently won't often by a 10 in everyone's eyes.  In fact, I will go one step farther and say that I don't think that those girls are often 10s in MANY reviewers' eyes from a purely AESTHETIC point of view.

And that's where we get into trouble.  Because the score is truly for "appearance."  It's not for "attrativeness."

But again, I would be splitting hairs here.

None of this is to say that Kate Jacobs in particular is one way or another.  I have met Kate (outside of a session and not at a M&G), and I think she is a wonderful person and very charming and intelligent.  She isn't everyone's cup of tea, but I could quickly see how she would be absolutely perfect for a certain type of client.  And that client would be the guy looking for the "connection" that you don't find in other paid encounters.

Anyway...just my thoughts on the subject matter.

I've expressed my feelings on this subject many times, but to no avail.... but here I go again:
Either TER needs to change the definition of 10 ("ONCE in a lifetime" to "ONCE a month"), or the way TER handles a 10 needs to be changed. And that would be my preference.
Changed to what?
When a reviewer rates "ONCE", it should mean just that. So each reviewer should be allowed to give only one 10 for appearance, and one 10 for performance. The same way every time a provider gets a review her score is changed, any time a reviewer gives a 10, any previous 10 should be changed to 9, forcing a reviewer to truly pinpoint which provider he considers the most beautiful, and which he considers giving the best service. Then a 10 would truly mean "ONCE"!

Thanks wow! And you too crazy! (Funny to use wow and crazy like that in a heartfelt gratitude sentence).

I reread my own post and quickly want to apologize to all for the little mistakes... Including where I wrote "high value" but meant "high volume." Auto correct...

Anyway... yes again and again to 10/10's mostly being not what they seem. Even when they are truly meant and deserved by the hobbyist/provider, you don't know what could affect it out of context. Is it "attractiveness" vs pure "appearance" as crazy suggests? Is it carefully choosing from a small niche of personalities as I do and others confirm that I do? Is it a REALLY GREAT actress? Or is it all the negativities that fall into this conversation? The discounts and what not.

All you can do is research as much as you can and go for it. One thing I would suggest that I haven't as of yet, is perhaps ask a woman you DO like who she might recommend. She'll be able to suggest likeminded providers at her own same level.

This will be my last post on this thread... Thank you again to ohoh, wow, and crazy for your wonderfully kind words.

Kiss me,

Kate

Now that is a good idea...I do believe that would be better than what we have now....because that is the point!!!...Once In A Lifetime is Exactly What it Says !!!!...Point well taken

Ladies: Do you ever read a guy's reviews as part of your background research and decline to see him because of what he's written about prior encounters with other women?  Do you ever read a review after a date and smile about how he has embellished about his size or stamina?  

Guys: Do you ever read a review and doubt whether the guy was being truthful about his size/stamina/multiple shots on goal?