I've met a great girl about 3 months AGO and just found out that she is a high class escort working here NYC. She doesnt know that i know her true occupation. I really have no desire to see here anymore..


Any Advice......

Call her agency and book her for a session!

like you said....She's a great girl!...and since you have no desire to see her anymore...might as well leave well enough alone and let it be.

There are many excellent ladies in TER land that provide
the ultimate fantasy world for us hobbyiests.It's important we realize that they are human beings also and have lives outside the hobby just like we all do.So, when a provider let's me in on her real world...It's between me and her..and goes nowhere else.

Your situation is somewhat different since you met her in Civvy life first.I can understand her not confiding in you yet about her "work" as 3 months is way too early in anyone's relationship.
If anything, I'm sure now that you have found out, since you do participate in this hobby, that you would be more understanding than non-participants.What is missing for anyone to comment on your situation is the extent of the three month relationship and the extent of your quiet moments/conversations that you have had together.

It's always best to take the high road in situations like this.

Cheers!

Have nothing to do with one another. Providers have personal, private lives as well. Its ok that we have an S/0 for special intimate, endearing moments. Everyone needs that.. No matter who you are.. or what you are.  Most often we get the question " Does your boyfriend, husband know what you do? " I say.. Does yours know ? .... *smile*

As said, respect her privacy.... tell her you dont want to see her anymore.. Its that simple.

You're getting it free........everyone else is paying!!! What's the problem??

Unless you fall in love with her i would continue seeing her for the free sex.  I wish I had your problem.

Ciao and happy hunting,
frankie

First, how sure are you she is an escort?  Look real hard at your source of information.  Before making any descision be sure about your facts.

Second you say she is a great girl.  If she is an escort why does this make her NOT a great girl?  She is still a person that has needs and desires.  I guess this makes us hobbiest real bad boys.  Double Standard?? OK, maybe your single and do not have a girlfriend.  But most of us have a wife or girlfriend.

If you have no desire to see her any longer just let it go.  You have that right.  And by all means do not bad mouth her to your friends.

Bottom line, you posted the question because your looking for input to your situation.  We can all respect that.  The only one that can tell you what to do is yourself based on your own feelings.

Regards,
Dr. onemore007

Since im in the Hobby , she is a stunning lady , with no kids or married before , Until one day revealed her body pic in the website, I have no problem if she was open w/ me ,but the fact she is still not opening with me . Im not sure i can be intimate with her anymore. We are great couple together , but  u loss her trust.Im not sure my feeling will change

Does she know you have seen escorts? You have reviewed a few right? This seems so hypocritical. Thank your lucky stars she let you into her private world. I would love to have that with a certain provider I am very fond of

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