But rather discussed in private.

For example, on my site I have a page with packages for those who specifically seek out Long-Term Companionship Packages. A retainer fee may be discussed based on our expectations, needs and boundaries.

Lina

Sugar Daddies all over the globe are in DENIAL. They are nothing more and nothing less than clients. Sugar Babies are providers....the ONLY difference between them and us is societal acceptance....which makes what they do perfectly legal...yup that one little word "ACCEPTANCE" means I can go put my same exact ad up that I have on Eros on any of the sugar daddy sites...and never be worried about going to jail.....I will have to constantly put on acts and shows worthy of a Tony Award to maintain this facade. Unless the man is a MEGA WHALE......I can make more money, and have peace of mind seeing several clients who have a clear understanding of what the hobby is....

Many many ladies who are providers started out by being sugar babies and evolved into making it official and are now officially asking a certain price for a certain amount of time.....sugar babies are nothing more and nothing less than PROVIDERS.


Why do I feel this way? Very simple......erase the money for time/sex out of the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship....and the sugar daddy/sugar baby will cease......erase the money out of the equation of a provider/client relationship and they won't be meeting anymore.

If you tell an official Sugar Daddy that he is a client...he will fall out and die.....because they think they are more to the sugar baby than a fat payment once a month. Tell a Sugar Baby she is a ho.....and she may agree with you..........

IMHO....Sugar Daddies are a ROYAL PAIN IN THE ASS. They are not worth the time or the money. Their sense of self entitlement means they are eternally confused as to why the female is there.....they want sex, with one sided emotions attached, and want to be a controlling part of the ladies real life...many times forbidding her to see other people, while they remain free to do whatever they want to do.....ummmmmmmm NO THANKS. So, like many ladies, I prefer to be very very very clear, brutally honest, and upfront with men who may be a wee bit confused about my role in their lives......I am here to fuck, you are here to be fucked, and pay me...after we have fucked the daylights out of each other you will leave, I will go to the bank....and we don't ever have to see each other again.

You are soooo right!  It also applies to vanilla sites like Ashley Madison.  There are even some -- and I'm not with them, though I understand -- who maintain marriage is a similar arrangement of P4P.  Clearly, though, creating a family with kids goes way beyond simple "providing."  Which is why the breadwinner is often called the "provider" instead of the other way 'round.

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There are ladies who mostly see 2 or 3 gents in an on-going arrangement with perhaps a few guys they see on a somewhat regular basis and the occasional new gent. That is basically a sugar daddy arrangement that is not limited to just one guy.

They do exist but be careful.  It is easy to establish a relationship; just go to the right site.  But it can be a very different experience and they are often harder to get rid of than your wife.  I disagree with Allure though.  I have been in these relationships and am in one now.  That doesn't stop either of us from doing whatever we do when we are not together.  But we do things together that are fun in addition to the sex.  Whatever rocks your boat.