A buddy of mine wants to have a threesome with a woman. We're both straight and he is on the fence about joining in or just watching. Are there any ladies in the NY/NJ area that you guys would suggest might be into this type of scenario?

I did an MFM with her (it was her first) that was like what you prefer -- no sword crossing -- and she seemed to like it. I can't guarantee she'd be interested but you never know.