I was wondering if this would be a red flag to some hobbyist if they had a date set up and all of a sudden the providers reviews and info where no longer on TER. Prior the provider only had three reviews and was new

I am sorry that you were looking forward to meeting her and that did not happen, but this is not uncommon and you should not worry about it. It would have been nice for her to politely cancel, but don't be too surprised about her "disappearance".

Girls decide to put up an ad for various reasons. Some have a short-term goal in mind, some decide to make a long-term career out of this. Being a provider is nonetheless challenging, so women deal with it differently. Think about the emotional aspect, the secrecy, the risks, the implications...

It is best to let her go and accept her decision.

And speaking about it, I can't really stand those "retirement" announcements and special last-time tours. Don't only give yourself a break, but give us a break!

I think that people should do this privately and discreetly and not make a masquerade out of it.

Good luck with your new engagements!

Anais