I had an opportunity to see a provider whos rate was 300 an hour when she suggested an all nighter.
Well, I'd seen her before and was interested until she suggested 8 hours of her time for 2500. Well, using my public education math, that was over 300 an hour, and since I knew we were not really going to play in the hay really for 8 hour straight, I thought this was a little excessive, so I declined.
So the question is this? Was that a fair rate to have someone for 8 hours, knowing she was going to be sleep?? And if not, can I expect her to perform during the 8 hours I've compensated her for.
I moved on, I respect her rate. It is was it is, just out of my league.
Did I do the right thing??????
unless you like to sleep with someone, that is. As for me, I don't pay to do that. Or to watch someone eat.
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I had an opportunity to see a provider whos rate was 300 an hour when she suggested an all nighter.
Well, I'd seen her before and was interested until she suggested 8 hours of her time for 2500. Well, using my public education math, that was over 300 an hour, and since I knew we were not really going to play in the hay really for 8 hour straight, I thought this was a little excessive, so I declined.
So the question is this? Was that a fair rate to have someone for 8 hours, knowing she was going to be sleep?? And if not, can I expect her to perform during the 8 hours I've compensated her for.
I moved on, I respect her rate. It is was it is, just out of my league.
Did I do the right thing??????
And if not then what would you think 8 hours of playing is worth? I'm
Curious. Im not trying to be rude if I come across as such I'm actually curious. 
I really don't do over nights do this is not applicable to me I just am wondering what the men think?
We goof off, shoot the shit, partake of the herb, feed each other...touch each other, fuck, cuddle, kiss, suck, lick, squeeze, scratch, rub, massage.... 
She's the bestest!
lmao
After you've had at least a dinner date or two and have established a nice connection an ovenight can be fun. I like your list of activities; maybe add watching a "chick flick" or "porno" together; and shower or jacuzzi together.
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We goof off, shoot the shit, partake of the herb, feed each other...touch each other, fuck, cuddle, kiss, suck, lick, squeeze, scratch, rub, massage....
She's the bestest!
lmao
Especially when the providers (like the one the OP mentions) can't do simple math calculations past 2 hours. Often the best rates are the 2 hour dates. For 300/hr often I will see ~500/2 hr. For longer dates sometimes the hourly rates provide no discount or actually go up like in the OP example. This provider should at very most have charged 2000 (which works out to 250 X 8). Just my 2 cents.
I've done overnights with only 2 providers. The first one came late and left early (I never saw her again). The second one came early and left late (she became my "ATF").
Once again, this is an individual thing, so you can't simply say overnights "are a complete waste of time and money." They are for you, and they are for me. For other guys, they seem to love the idea of a person in bed next to them, and waking up next to that person for some morning fun. Perhaps they crave intimacy and can't form long-term relationships where that happens naturally. I have no idea. But if they want to do it, fine. Of course, you're right that the math should make sense.
You are NOT paying for her to service your needs for 8 hours. That's not how this works. Sleep or no sleep.
I agree the key thing here is time. If nothing happens you still gotta pay for the time. Therefore its your choice how many hours of time you want whether you sleep or not.
that specifically say it includes 6 hours of sleep time, guess you get to fool around in the morning when you wake up
As a provider this post intriqued me...as I've done over nights, full 24hr dates and vacations with many of my lovely guys (and couples)....I definitely price according to sleep time....I know some girls may say its for their time but let's not get greedy...if you are doing an overnight I'd have to assume you like and really have fun with the guy. I'm sorry you had a soured experience with your first thought of spending more time with one of us lovely ladies.... There are girls who get economics so don't dispare...
Cheers
Sara Marie
If she is only 300hr you would think her overnight tribute would be cheaper, but many aren't because they clearly do not enjoy them. If I know were going to have fun I will offer a special because your going out to dinner & your not playing for the entire time. If I am 1k for 2hrs, than my overnight is a sweet culo deal!
needs wishes, desires or whatever you wish to call it. as you said, she is out of your legue and you chose to move on and this is fine. But there is no riht or wrong . she has her fees and you have your limits end off.
AS for speculating on how many overnights she gets, that is just out place (refering to people who made does coomments not you
Serena x
I would and have only done them with someone I have met multiple times and would consider dating outside of the hobby.
My ATF feels the same way and such we have agreed on a very miniscule amount to cover some of her time and potentially lost income, but it's really more about us relaxing, having fun, enjoying a relaxing meal or two, play time of course, but truly off the clock type of experience for BOTH of us......I could not and would not pay someone to spend that much time with me unless I knew them well....I find actually sleeping with someone to be a very intimate thing,,,,,,,
as far as this lady wanting 2500 for an overnight,,,,,its not right nor wrong to go ahead and do it or elect not to...its totally a personal choice on both of our parts.....she may not like to do it, but would if the price was right, she may have surmised that you would pay that and really she may have taken half that amount,,,,,,,but its neither right nor wrong
First, and 8 hour overnight is barely an overnight. Second, in most cases the overnight is a discounted version of the mult-hour rate (i.e. you don't usually see straight multiplication). Some girls don't like the overnight and instead of having to tell you no to your face, they let their rates say no. The fact that she suggested it, doesn't mean she's all that into it.
If you are really into it, there are plenty of options. If you are really into it with HER, try this. Offer to get two connecting rooms so that there is space for privacy and a second bathroom. This will take away the potential that she might feel trapped in the room with you. That should make her more comfortable, but at the end of the day, it's her call. Some girls just don't like it.
It's not a question of the right thing. Respectfully say no thank you is never wrong, but debating her rate with her is a sure way to make she doesn't see you again even at $300/hr.
I won't get into rates but I have paid for overnights and even a week long (when I was traveling on business) with my fav. All I can say is that these have been among the best times I have ever had with a woman. If the connection is there, these long dates can be amazing: wild sex, intimacy, friendship, crazy daring public sex games, etc. I wish I had the freedom and the money to repeat these often. Only thing is the connection has to be there....
Maybe its not that either one of you are wrong.. just that that is out of your price range. Which is fair.
I see typical overnights range from 2000-3000 so she is in the normal range. Although, some girls offer them for 1000-1500.
Just work with whats best for you
I think the thing that stood out to me is that the provider was the one who suggested the all nighter. This happened to me once before. The math made sense numbers-wise. But the connection wasn't there since she sent me all the places she wanted to have dinner and to stay in her home city that I'd be visiting. All 4-5 star places which aren't me at all (old, stuffy) and pushed the economics into the stratosphere. At that point, it just made more sense to commit those resources into a non-pay for play situation. Seemed to me she was just looking for a big cash score with a bunch of fancy meals.
Many girls prefer long appointments and set their prices to make such appointments a good deal for their clients.
It surprises me that she is the one who suggested and all nighter, because based on her prices, she prefers not to do them. Perhaps she expects to be kept up all night, going 4, 5, 6 or more times. Or perhaps she doesn't like to sleep in a bed with someone else. Whatever the reason, she sets her prices to make it unlikely she'll have to do so, and if she does, she makes sure it's worth her while.
Did you do the right thing? Only you can answer that. For some $2500 is nothing. And for some, $1000 would be too much for such a session. It's all subjective.
As for what's a fair rate? The answer is, whatever the lady wants to charge. What's a fair rate for 1 hour? $200? $500? $1k? There are guys who pay at each of those levels. So they are all fair.
In this case, $2500 is a fair rate for this girl, because that's how much it will cost, if you really want her.
If you want to know what other girls charge for an overnight, that's a different question. There are plenty who charge the same as this girl, though usually their hourly rate is higher. It's unusual to see a $300 girl ask that much. There are some who charge more, and there are some who charge less.
My personal experience is that girls who enjoy all night sessions usually charge something between their 3 hour and their 5 hour rate.
enjoy overnight dates and weekends about 4-5 times a month. As much as I enjoy it, it does mean that I won't see anyone the day of or the day after. It can be mentally and physically taxing, depending on the company. Some people are light sleepers which means I am aware even in my sleep of tossing, turning, etc., trying not to wake them up.
One of my overnight dates decided at 9am that he wanted to see just how long his erection could last! I'm fairly certain I got carpal tunnel that morning.
As for the girl who only suggested 4/5 star places to go, that's what most guys want. I spend a lot of time staying up on the best restaurants (not that it's hard in NYC) because if a guy wants a night out he probably doesn't want to go to Applebees where he eats with his family back in Ohio on a regular basis. He wants to feel pampered. She was only trying to please you, not get a lot of free meals. Most of us can and do treat ourselves to plenty of nights out on our own time and dime!
Anna Faire x
