I am a professional female seeking advice on arranging a threesome involving myself and my BF.  I live in the south and trying to plan something in NYC.  I'm such a rookie, not sure where to start.  Please be kind with your posts

There are many very well reviewed ladies who will work with couples.  You need to read their websites and/or TER listings.  Most (and the ones I would trust) ask that they speak with or contact both members of the couple before a session.  Many feel two hours is the minimum to make it work.  Have fun!!

Serena x

Thank you, great advice.  I'm visiting NYC in the next month, do you think they would meet with me in person.  I'd love to 'interview'...I know that might sound odd if it were a man, but I want to make sure we (meaning her and I) click.  I'm pretty sure, he'll be happy as long as I'm happy
 

Hi Serena,  I can't open the private message.  I feel like such a novice here.  Options?

My lady friend has a similar interest. VS1973 let me know who you narrow in on. Post, if possible.  I'm new to board membership and am not VIP so won't be able to see any private message. We'd prefer busty bi lady 30s or 40's that will be into my lady directing/watching and participating.

How do I go about setting up a meet & greet/interview?  Is that even an option?  I'm sure these girls will want to know about me and vice versa.  I can send pics so you see that I'm fairly cute, lol.

Thanks escape_coauthor for your post.  A lot of this information is overwhelming, so I'm trying to filter through everything.  I am not opposed to enrolling as a VIP but it seems a bit unnecessary this early in the process.  Busty and adventurous is definitely preferred...I'll let you know what direction I head in (no pun intended)!  

It is not common to meet first.  However, if you offered to compensate the lady for her time some would do it.  A phone call might be easier to arrange.  Also, email if you are not receiving TER PMs.  You need VIP status to PM.

First ~ You want VIP so you can read reviews . Without that your looking for big boobs which we can find on any lunch lady at the local school  .  
It's cheap enough considering the information you will get for the cost .

Second ~ I believe you may have trouble scheduling a meet and greet unless your willing to pay the lady for her time . There maybe someone willing to but will she be the same girl your looking for ? Will it just be the one willing to meet and having time in her schedule to meet you twice .  

Third ~ Screening for most of us would be required for both yourself and your partner .  
For me that includes seeing your an active hobby person male or female .
Generally this includes references that we / I can contact to determine you have been with someone or some number of people and that they found you both to be safe and would see you again .  
I am not saying you are Not safe .  I am saying it is hard to determine and establish a history of safety on a newbie couple .  
I wish you both the best of luck , Kendall Lynn