...After being in this hobby for some time, I'm starting to stray away from the 19 to 24 yr olds. It is not a satisfying time for me.

I'm starting to realize that the perfect age for a REAL provider is between 25 to 45. Of course, rip offs and one poppers don't count. I'm posting this with some good experiences behind me in both the hobby and outside of it.  

Am I alone here or are you guys starting to realize this too?


This message does not apply to Ms. Jourdan of LI - trust me on that.

With time comes experence. Some of the younger providers are just in it for the quick buck. Their proformances are often all over the chart. That is why one reviewer will give them a 8 or 9 and another a 5. I agree with you 1way older is most often better.
Jourdan, well they say women are from Venus.

Hi guys,

I agree whole hartedly and will go one further. I prefer them between 32-45.  Someone under 30 just wouldn't do it for me.
With the few I have seen, I think I have seen only one under 30 and it was a big dissapointment.
Nothing much sexier (haven't seen Ms. Jourdon but I take 1Ways word for it !) than an experienced, in shape mature lady who knows and cares how to please.
I wish there were more available, especially on LI.

I second that emotion..... but nice round firm butt is hard to pass up. Lets keep F*#king them all. Variety is the spice of life. Who's got it better than US   OH YEAH!!!!!!!!!!

I told you this in November of 2002, in that incall place we have in Boca.

A more mature provider knows how to treat a Man, as she is a Woman.   They don''t rush, they care a little more about you, and more often than not, they totally enjoy what they do.  So, they are more GFE than the youngsters, in general.  Alyssa Young herself, Mint Julie and Irene, visiting from Las Vegas, immediately come to mind.  These ladies are ultimate dates and sex partners.

Disclaimer:

I acknowledge the fact that there are many younger providers out there who are exceptions to this generality, and on Long Island most of them are at NY Jewels.

And yes, at the head of the "exception" list is Ms. Jourdan.

For the most part, I agree with the assessment that more mature women tend to be more experienced.

One of the best experiences I have ever had was with a woman who is listed (on her TER review main page) as 30ish.  When I was talking with her, she is really 39.  She is intelligent, interesting, beautiful, sensuous and great fun!  She is one of my ATFs.

With that said, I had have 2 INCREDIBLE experiences with women who were 21 and 23.  

IMHO

I figured out the 25-45 age bracket was where it's at long ago. In fact I'm suspicious of providers who havn't yet reached 30. Don't overlook the 45+ year old providers. Many of those fully matured ladies are as sexy as any 25year old and they will rock your ever lovin world.

 FR225

I bet a lot of women agree with me on this.  You guys are so much more intelligent and cultured then men here in New England (not that there are not some nice guys but so many on the boards here are dirty ole men chasing young women which is similar to a dog at the racetrack chasing a fake rabbit hehe).

Older women are more relaxed and skilled and know where all the sensitive spots are and how to tease and please them.

Bravo to you guys for being open minded and in tune with nature and the fact that variety is the spice of life.

Enjoy,

Kate

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Thanks for the compliments on us New Yorkers/Long Islanders.
AS far as the 45+ ladies, I would love to see a few but there aren't that many around and the few that are don't have many reviews.
The key of course is a sexy 45+ lady, not simply a 45+ woman who is a great provider as far as performance. I am not trying to sound shallow. I just can be tough to please sometimes.

guys! ... just wait a god-darn New York minute!  LOL

it's not age (measurable in years) ... it's ATTITUDE!  

so in as much as their maturity & experience enhances their attitude, then yes it's true, "older" providers are better, by all means

but y'all gotta give props to the younger gals with super attitudes. i hate to sound like a bigot (age-wise) but when it comes to pure sex (not companionship, wit, humour, all the other things mind you, just great sex) i prefer a "young" provider with kick-ass attitude (call me a shallow-minded perv!

since i'm not running for office or Mr. Congeniality, i don't mind saying this (as PI as it may sound) in fact i've said it before on National: i hobby for youth, sex and beauty! -- the other stuff: compansionship, pseudo-love, pretend GF(E), conversation, etc. i can (for the most part) find elsewhere and for free (almost)

i know this may not be a "popular" view, especially with my elders (Fort, etc) but cut me some slack, i only just recently left behind my 30s!  

JMHO / $0.01

The first time I was with a 19 year old was the last.  Afterwards, I just didn't feel right about it.  Was she in this biz because she really wanted to be?  (Later on, she acquired a pimp!)  

I want someone older so I have some feeling that the woman knows what she is doing and getting herself into.

-Hoot.

While I'll admit that most of my best experiences have been with providers in their upper 20s and early 30s (Elizabeth at Julies is still my tops of all time), I still have a weakness for the young ladies. If I had the choice between a 30 year old that I've been with previously, who gives me the best I've ever had, or a smokin' hot 20 year old I've never had before, who is twice the price, and even has suspect reviews, I'm a sucker. I go for youngster.

I know, it doesn't make a whole lot of sense, and defies logic (a fool and his money, I suppose). There's just something nice about those firm breasts that, no matter which way you turn her, they still find a way to point up. Those lean thighs and buttocks, without a single pucker of cellulite that is ever-present on even the fittest of older providers.

It is, however, a personal preference. I'm not looking for a relationship. In fact, in the two dozen or so times I've hobbied, it's never been the same girl twice. I'm sure some psychologist could put together a good dozen 'profiles' on hobbyists, all completely different.

For starters, there's me, who is looking for variety, and college girls are best (could have a lot to do with my first experience, the physical type of girl it was, and how early/late into life it occured). Why eat at one restaurant in this city if there are hundreds to try? The next one could always be 'the best'. I imagine there are others, but I can only speculate on what there's might be.

Either way, I've only been hobbying for about a year, so my attitude may change the longer I do this, but I can't imagine that it will. Diff'rent strokes, they say, for different folks.

"There's just something nice about those firm breasts that, no matter which way you turn her, they still find a way to point up" -- sean10016

amen ... gotta remember that line!   LOL

The majority of my best experiences have been with 30 and over group.  However, when I enjoy the person and the experience, I like to go back several times.  It becomes somewhat of a date and I've found that, generally, the menu expands and the experience only gets better.

..her while I was in FLA. TER won't post it because it is a competing site. Anyway, during the session I started to feel less like a Hobbyist and more like a pervert. She is 22 but she felt younger to me. So that is why I brought up this post. Other younger providers that I saw, only enforced that train of thought.

I know that there are younger providers that can "knock your sox off" but for now it's going to be 25 to 35 for me.

Hi,

You just might want to consider moving up the range to 40. I gave you one awhile ago who is just past 35 who will knock your sox off.
Good luck on your next trip.

...A good time is a good time. Who am I to stop 35?

Its a good thing us guys are not given any age restrictions( I can think of one good reason why not)...lol...
and as far as lieing about ages...hell...I've been 29 for the past 15 years....lol...

Its not about the age its all about attitude. Sooo right!

Cheers!

but the experience! and I do mean Life experience! This provides (or detracts) motivation to accomplish her task in a classy, passionate way. Keep in mind though, many hobbyists are simply in for that moment of lust! - so age is irrelevant!!!
I've been lucky enough to see two 20's who I would definitely see again (again). The rest? - oh well. (:

There are providers out there who won't see guys in their 20's.

-Hoot.