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It*Has*To*Stop 1487 reads
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In the last year, I know personally 7 or 8 hobbyists and providers that have been stalked and threatened by angry, crazy,  desperate, and in some cases addicted providers. I'm not going to mention any names, but the threats usually entail outting real names publicly, blogging with others real names, blacklist threats, and contacting neighbors, employers, and family about the hobby. In some cases children have been threatened by these psycho providers. In none of the cases that I know of, did the the person that was threatened do anything wrong.  It has to stop, and the perpetrators of the threats need to be exposed, banned, and drummed out of the business, and community. The victims must fight back. It's a lousy topic, but needs to be discussed, and victims need to take a stand.  And ladies wonder WHY men don't want to endure outrageous screening.  I don't want to hear stories about bad hobbyists. The perpetrators of all these threats are bad providers that can't pay their bills, have drug or alcohol problems, and in many cases certifiably crazy. It has to STOP!!!   :-@

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Fantasia784 reads

It does need to stop! All I can say is WOW, people are insane!!

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It*Has*To*Stop704 reads

Some of those being stalked were so fearful of this loser addict MILF that they asked me to have my post pulled for fear the bi-polar bitch would further harass them, and think they wrote the post. Note to bi-polar psycho stalker:  The ones you are stalking are not ME.  We've never met, and I hope never to meet your hag ass.  I've heard stories about you for many months from others. I know other stalkers in the area doing the same thing as you. Maybe your loser ass has relatives???  It has to stop !

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whitelightening835 reads

usually its the higher end ladies who are the problem.  They seek alot of info to see them, record the info and then use it against you when you either set them off in one way or another and stories that i hear are that if you rate them in a review below a 10/10 or bother not to write that 10/10 review they commence with their attacks.
The high volume women do not have time between clients to bother and you are basically a faceless, no name to them.
Be careful with the screening process, to much info will do you in.
if men stand up united and refuse to be screened to the extent that the provider requests then they will have slowed down biz or no biz and they will cease the intensive intrusive screening process.
Word to the wise, keep your private life private and move onto those that do not ask so many questions.  If we as clients ask them anything they become defensive, we do not even know their real names, ages, family life etc but they want to know all.

Posted By: It*Has*To*Stop
In the last year, I know personally 7 or 8 hobbyists and providers that have been stalked and threatened by angry, crazy,  desperate, and in some cases addicted providers. I'm not going to mention any names, but the threats usually entail outting real names publicly, blogging with others real names, blacklist threats, and contacting neighbors, employers, and family about the hobby. In some cases children have been threatened by these psycho providers. In none of the cases that I know of, did the the person that was threatened do anything wrong.  It has to stop, and the perpetrators of the threats need to be exposed, banned, and drummed out of the business, and community. The victims must fight back. It's a lousy topic, but needs to be discussed, and victims need to take a stand.  And ladies wonder WHY men don't want to endure outrageous screening.  I don't want to hear stories about bad hobbyists. The perpetrators of all these threats are bad providers that can't pay their bills, have drug or alcohol problems, and in many cases certifiably crazy. It has to STOP!!!   :-@

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WTFRUTA699 reads

What the F*** are you talking about?  With a serial killer running wild in New York, the fact that you even insinuate that providers shouldn't ask clients to be verified is COMPLETELY NUTS!    

And FYI it's not the high end providers who do this type of thing to others.  It has nothing to do with being high end or low end.  At the end of the day, a high end lady could be as busy as a low end lady.  This type of behavior has something to do with what is at the core of their personalities.  It's the ones who spend too much time analyzing competition, the jealous ones, the unsuccessful ones who cannot seem to keep clients coming back to them... those are the ones who out other providers' real names.  It's the ones who have personality issues and who give and attract bad energy.

The ones who are successful and who work hard to offer the best service to their clients have NO time to waste with these games!  They're too busy trying to please their clients - whether it's in the low end or high end of the business.

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WTFRUTA793 reads

And what about people who threaten to call the cops on you???? HUH? What about those same people who email your business address and say things like "the cops are coming to visit you"?   WE KNOW who it is behind all this and they might be playing with the DEVIL.  TO threaten people like this is completely insane and only bad things can come out of it

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It*Has*To*Stop670 reads

She's a MILF & her rate is 3 roses.  She's not a streetwalker, nor is she is a PS or Model.  She is stalking and threatening many in this area. She is mentally fucked up.   And Newb12, you're an asshole.  This has to stop!

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WTFRUTA446 reads

3 roses... you mean 3 dollars, 300 dollars or 3000 dollars?

And what is MILF???

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DickyLong1539 reads

300.00  
You can look up Milf ... hint, it could be Sarah Palin or Faith Hill.

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Crazy Diamond462 reads

I've been in this game for almost eight years, and I've never had a lady threaten or harass me over reviews, nor been blacklisted as far as I know.  I've had my share of problems with NCNS, and late cancellations, but all have offered to or made things right afterward.  Even the one lady who I had a tussle with here that got me moderated, I've buried the hatchet with.  

Patience is a virtue, and being cool and holding your tongue publicly, is the best way to go.  

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stripclubaddict617 reads

Holding your tongue is not the way to go.  We have no private info on them but they can destroy your life.  Yes, we all chose to do this but if you can help one other monger out then it is worth it.  Yes, we can all also stop playing in this game but let the punishment fit the crime.  I try to see high end women that take references and have had very good responses.  I had a high end agency almost do me in.  I know this is a tad off beat but they fell out of favor with one girl so she got a hold of their phone book and called everyone's job and personal home to say this guy, with exact info, was seeing a call girl and when she called their home she told their wives that she had HIV and just saw her husband.  Luckily when I can home from work and this nasty voice mail was on my answering machine, i had nothing to hide as I live alone but I could imagine if I did not.  She later proceeded to call me almost once a week and when i called the agency they said yes she has been doing that alot and there is nothing we can do as she now has all the clients info.  I try to bne the upmost professional and the ladies that have seen me can attest to that but to make a long story short a called her cell from my caller ID and lets say I made her an offer she could not refuse to stop calling me.. That was the end of it but this should never have happend.  Yes, i agree those men need to man up and name names but let us be resonable here.  I agree women need screening to protect themselves but if a womean violates that then she should suffer the consequences as well...  Just sayin and happy holidays and happy hunting to all......

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MaybeNott509 reads

and so are the people who use it.

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Crazy Diamond663 reads

If the ladies you are referring to are that much of a problem, surely you should name them here.  I'm sure the moderators will allow that, and will permit this without flipping your alias.  Man up, dude!

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DickyLong503 reads


I don't know why you're posting this other than to rant.  Do you really think we know who the fuck you're even talking about.  Or should we all just stop seeing milfs in the 3 bills range?

You're using an Alias so why not give some more info even if you don't want to provide a name?

OK, the ball is in your court.

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QueenBia597 reads

I would say that this is not professional, or smart, so why are these gals on the top 100 lists?


Raise the bar!  Stay classy & this is not match.com providers the guy is not yours, VS fellas your not looking to fall in love it's a no strings attached hobby.

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