Posted By: Nitro9
I was intrigued too until I saw her and was rather disappointed on many levels. To be honest though she didn't cook for me so I can't comment on that part of it. She specifically requests that you not review her either so I will respect that and not say anything more but suffice to say that the two most disappointing experiences I have had in the hobby were both from providers who specifically ask that you don't review them............hmmmmmmmmm..... quite a coincidence.
One more thing about Tabitha (and she will tell you this herself) is that she told me that the two reviews of her that are posted have a significant amount of fiction in them so its one more reason not to be intrigued. Never quite understand providers who ask you not to post reviews yet don't ask TER to remove the ones that are posted or alternatively delist altogether.......strange.
Hello Nitro,
Though I just now found your comment, it deserves a response nonetheless.
If what you say is true, then I am truly sorry you were unhappy with our meeting. Most issues can be solved with open, honest communication - something I encourage in every client-muse relationship. With that said, I will take your comments into future consideration and encourage you to reach out to me with your thoughts.
It has become more apparent to me than ever that chemistry is a major factor in the success of a romance of this type. In the past, I thought accepting engagements with gents with whom I didn't feel that "spark" was par for the course. I have learned it is ok to turn down invitations for no other reason than incompatibility.
The current version of my website touches on the type of gent who would most enjoy a relationship with me; which is someone who sees things in the long term and desires an intellectual, spiritual and physical connection. A gent with the “try it out,” tick off a checklist and move on mindset, might be disappointed. I see my work as the joining of two thoughtful, intelligent human beings - not a packaged product sold to the masses.
If we were acquainted, you would know why I no longer want reviews. It is not because I am a green-skinned hunchback with something to hide. If reviews are indeed fiction (as per TER's mission statement), that is what I will tell anyone who asks about them. The graphic nature of reviews are often insensitive and rife with legal liability – the latter makes me extremely uncomfortable. The anonymity of reviews also makes a resolution impossible.
The words often leave out the most important, yet intangible, aspect; the chemistry, how the lady made him feel, how he walked away with a little more peace in his life.
In place of reviews, a few gentleman friends (also TER users) have agreed to serve as private references. I sincerely hope that is sufficient proof of my authenticity to anyone hoping to meet me in the future.
