I was walking along Time Square noticed all those billboard signs with men wearing nice watches, suits, holding a cigar, or reclining back striking his pose in a nice car.  Then I remembered my SO claiming she doesn't go for muscular or rich guys except that all her ex boyfriends were rich and handsome, well, except me.  

Something about me must have been different out of the ordinary. Women are sometimes gold diggers and usually want a good looking guy with a nice personality, but then sometimes they aren't gold diggers and just want what everybody else wants.  

So it got me thinking, when do you get most turned on by a man who isn't normally your type?

But I imagine someone without an insecure ego that needs to boast on a fuck board.  

And one with some literary skills.

Don't get me wrong, I adore successful men, in both my personal and biz life.  
I tell them "Look, when you are with me stick with the two things you are good at, I got the rest."
"Uh, what am I good at?"
"Fucking and making money!!"

When a man has so much more to offer: heart, soul, a true Statesman who comes from a place of Spirit and Giving...well, he has my full attention.  Not saying I am going to hang out with a broke mofo who can't pay his rent and pick up the check...no, did that in my 20s when I dated (and married) artists; those days are long gone.

But you don't need a G5 when you've got the Soul and emotional Courage of a lion, secure within yourself, compassionate, mindful, conscious of others needs...get my drift?

Don't get insecure.
I am sure your lady knows what she wants.
A Rolex is a dense piece of metal.
An open heart/mind/soaring Spirit connection leads to Eternity.

Keep up the great work.
xoClair Jorda