can anyone suggest a good couple to provide massage/bj/fs? i'd prefer a male/female couple i've been using ter for a while, and haven't come across anthing like this. much appreciated.

Just an Idea for ya.
www.Massage4Couples.com

The site you provided states on their front page "Sorry, we do Not provide massage services for single males. "

The original post was looking for a MF couple of providers, not for a provider to service a couple.

Check out Betty's site under MFM 3some. This may help you out. She is a great provider from NJ.  http://betty.nycnetworking.com