Well, I am ready to take a plunge and try a session with an indy.  I wanted to see if any one person has been with these two ladies and could recommend one over the other.  I will probably try both in the near future but since this is my first plunge I wanted it to be memorable.

I read the reviews of the girls that you have seen in the past.  I am not impressed.  See Stephanie then you will have something to  write about..  You will have a smile on your face for weeks to come.  Listen, the first rule of this hobbie is read the fucking reviews.  If you don't then you get no better then you deserve,.  
Peace Out
bm

Stephanie had met a girl who turned out also to be in the business. They wound up doing a threesome, and Steph noticed the other girls didnt dfk, bbbj, ect ect. At the time she had said she wouldnt be providing those services anymore and even stopped greek I believe. I don't know this to be 100% truth, but I do believe my sources. She will do fine as a young non gfe (in action) provider, but she does have this charisma that makes you feel like your with someone that really wants to be there. This should be interesting as this unfolds. Lets face it there are plenty of young pretty girls who are alot of fun to be with that can command the same rate as her 350, yet in my experience on the management side she will have a hard time keeping her rate what it is if in fact what she stated she plans to stick by. I do wish her the best in life and in business and hope that she follows her goals for school rather than getting too wrapped up in the business. She is a good kid with the usual ups and downs but for the most part she is a sweetheart, it will be interesting to see if you boys will be paying 350 for no dfk, bbbj, and all that stuff we did in our doubles. Who knows she might have just been a bit embarassed in front of the friend and thats why she said it, however she did repeat it after the fact to a third party as well. Either way she will be fine, you guys go nuts for types likeher and she just might be able to keep her rate simply because of her youth, looks and personality.

please dont shoot the messanger

Someone who goes from doing DFK, BBBJ,& Greek to eliminating these things completely obviously does not want to be there and does not enjoy it. A person stops doing things in their life that they don't like and seeks out things they do like.
Assuming what you say is true and that's a big assumption (hopefully it's not sour grapes) then she is obviously only in it for the money.

I think a reply to Samantha's apraisal of your knew attitude is needed here.
Peace Out

BM

Well, I cancelled my appointment with Stephanie after reading Summers post.  I was really looking forward to Greek since I can have straight sex without the high $$.  Thanks for the 411...

A young girl who is obviously relatively new to this business gets a little safety conscious or begins doing things she feels more comfortable with and instead of supporting her choices, those with sour grapes and frustrated posters who can no longer acquire those services come out with their teeth bared.



Only_me, Are you trying to imply that those who provide various “gef” services  want to somehow be here selling their bodies anymore than those who don’t provide “gfe” or that they’re somehow not “in it for the money”, but rather for the love of having sex with allot of smelly, fat old men twice their age?  Instead of voicing an opinion on whether or not Stephanie or anyone else of whom you’ve probably never spent time with is worth it or not, solely based on her supposed services offered, how about supporting her decision to control her own destiny.



I personally have met Stephanie several times both while she was still with Donna’s List and as an independent. I feel I should inform that she was fairly naive about what she was getting herself into when she entered into this business. When I first saw her during her first or second week with Donna, she requested my advice about certain matters pertaining to this business which I was more than happy to assist her with, and I posted one of her early reviews that said as much.

I might add that she is a very enjoyable person just to be around, she is refreshing, not at all jaded and has a bright outlook on life. I’ve spent hours with her just discussing a field we both have interest in (Marketing and Design) and find her to be extremely intelligent and knowledgeable.

I also recently spent time with another certain very popular provider here whom I won’t name and while she was absolutely beautiful and terrific in providing all the services many have raved about, she was extremely intoxicated when I arrived for our meeting, actually she reeked of alcohol to the point that I had to shower and brush my teeth before returning home to the wife. In all it did not make for pleasant conversation or a very enjoyable experience. I made a second attempt at seeing this provider hoping that perhaps she just had a bad day and was greeted with much more of the same. I would much have preferred to have spent time with someone like Stephanie or anyone else like her who while maybe not as attractive nor provide those same "gef" services as this TER favorite, she makes for a much more pleasurable experience.


In speaking to her this past week, Stephanie doesn’t intend on being with us much longer, perhaps only a few more months, and said that once school starts next week that she’d have to slow down on her social and business life considerably. So I don’t think she’s overtly concerned about a drop off in business from here. I saw her last as recently as this past weekend when she herself asked me for my opinion about this matter. I told her the truth that many women do not provide the services that she does and that they do just fine. I told her that she should do whatever she felt was best for her well being and for her safety and to consider her future. I’m also happy to say that she then provided me with a bbbj and dfk and it was done with all the enthusiasm that it was the first few times I met her. She did tell me that she had eliminated Greek from her services recently do to a bad experience or two, as well as nqns do to safety reasons.

She mentioned to me that while she enjoys sex and enjoys meeting many of the people here, that this is not her life’s ambition nor does she care to submerse herself in this as much as others have. We talked about a recent thread here regarding her phone being turned off, her voice mail constantly being full and her being harder to contact of late, and she simply told me that when she’s finished for the day, or when she returns home to visit her family, that she turns her phone off because her personal friends and family were getting suspicious at all the calls she was receiving.


In closing, I sincerely hope that Samantha’s post was not that of sour grapes as a poster above suggested, because Stephanie did tell me that she was of the most help to her and that she considered her a mentor, a very close personal friend and somewhat of a big sister whom she couldn’t stop complementing when I asked her when they would be providing doubles again. Sadly to say she informed me that since they had become such great friends, they both thought it better to conduct their business separately so as to not have any business conflicts carry over into their personal relationship. She’s a sweet girl with the perfect attitude for those who seek something other than a hardened professional, of which I’m certain there will be many others filling her dance card. Regardless of what services she chooses to provide in the future, I will certainly continue seeing Stephanie and will be more than happy to pay her going rate.

I can't blame Matrixx for canceling.

I don't need BBBJ or BBBJTC but it's a nice bonus.

DFK however, is almost a prerequisite.

I had wanted to see Stephanie, but will not be doing so now, though I wish her the best of luck.

Reidn't u guys do doubles together....

yes we did, to be honest it was a bit uncomfortable when my son met her and pretty much went gaga for her (keep in mind outside the biz she is a normal, lets have fun 19 year old college student just like him) and when he began calling her to say hello after hanging out with her and one of his school buddies one night, honestly it made me very very nervous. I know Steph is smart enough to not go there, not to mention I told her I'd rip her lungs out if she messed with my baby, biys will be boys, but I needed to depend on her to act as the responsible one and she did, and for that she is welcome over anytime when he is home for the holidays.

Also I didn't want to disrupt her going back to school, which according to my sons schedule should have been last week, but then again different places have different starting dates.

There were other factors involved that are between her and I. She tends to prefer to make appointments the way she does and I prefer to do incall trips. I think she preferrs just doing the here and there stuff rather than a specific date where we have a schedule to keep up with and it's not possible or proper to just say I dont feel like doing anymore (not that she did that)

I just got off the phone with her, we were both between stuff and will be talking later on, I did make her aware of this but we didnt have time to discuss it at length. Best thing is to just ask her yourself, prior to making any cancelations, who knows maybe our mutual friend got it wrong or like i said , she just said it because she was embarrassed which is very very common in brothels, the gilrs start downing the girls that do gfe type services, not all of course there is julies, but a great deal of them do opperate like that.

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I totally agree with you, and who ever made the sour grapes comment obviously hasn't a clue as to Steph's
and mine relationship. If they did they would never had even incinusated such crap. Learn the  FACTS BEFORE ACCUSATIONS ARE SLUNG PLEASE.

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-- Modified on 8/25/2004 1:42:09 PM

Meaning her gift didn't seem out of line or even higher than
other providers.

fr

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I myself have seen Stephanie on three occasions.  She is
wonderful.  I will continue to see her as mine and her schedule
permits.

The fact of the matter is, these young hotties can work as much
or a little as they want.  They're so hot, there will always
be a demand for their services.

fr

PS Wow, I used they're, there and their all in one sentence and
I think correctly.

I know Stephanie's computer wasn't working & I'm not sure if she has gotten it fixed yet.  I have spoken to her on the phone before and she is a really sweet girl.  I have my first appointment scheduled with shortly, but will speak to her about these issues before I meet her.  I agree with Ronald10021 - if DFK is off the table, I will cancel.  There are other pretty girls that I can just f*ck (i.e. no GFE) that charge significantly less.  But for that matter without the DFK, for me it's just not exciting.

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She might also be deciding to me a bit more discriminate with her activities and rather than offer all services to everyone, she might offer them selectively. These are my words not hers, but I know it's not easy to got from doing certain things with regulars to all of a sudden not. s far as new clients I couldn't tell you because I don't know and since I have not spoken to her I can't speak for her.

I've been unable to contact her since wed, she was supposed to show up at my surprise b-day party tonight, with all the food etc (This was a surprise for me) she never showed. I'm concerned myself with not being able to contact her, usually she touches base with me every other day or third day and it's not like her to blow me off, never has done it before tonight was a first so if anyone does talk to her please let her know there are people who care about her well being and are very very worried about her.

On one good note tonight me and Ashley (along with a few other friends) finally hooked up and boy did we get some great pics for my mailing list, her eyes will be blurred though but the rest if full frontal nudity! The lady behind us asked if we were movie stars I'm guessing she thought more like porn stars especially when I begged her to give me as few boob shots in the restaurant, and oh boy did she, I finally got my habds on those ta tas.