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betty_snj See my TER Reviews 3003 reads
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is not from a provider you KNOW...unfortunately, not every girl remembers who the guys are and, when asked for a reference, is simple to say "ohhh he's nice" and get over with than actually make an effort to make sure the guy is safe before vouching for him.
I was in MD, place that LE is very active, and saw a guy based solely on a reference from a well known local provider.
She called me in his behalf and, to make sure she was legit, I mailed her twice and she swore he was fantastic.
After my 3 hr appt was over and he was ready to leave, he sat in the bed and said he needed to come out clean with me.
Then, he explained how he was dying to see me and didn't have ANY references and used her name "gambling" on the fact she would not care or remember her johns. He told me he never saw her, but knew she was in the area for a while.
Then, he told me he was a retired cop from DC and that I should never trust another provider, unless I knew her personally.
Sorry that happened to you :(

Nico Veneta3601 reads

So I guess I got the greatest welcome I could have gotten. The first guy I see decides to rob me not only taking back his money but my purse also with of course my money, ID & credit cards.

Ladies B/C me for info if you want.

Kadi

PS Before anyone asks yes I did screen him and was told he was a great guy. Uh yeah right Won't be accepting refs from her anymore.

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Dirk Bogard3699 reads

It is at least some very good consolation to hear that you were not hurt!

Dastardly SOB's like him give the good NY hobbyiests a bad name.
Unfortunately,this kind of scoundrel-like occurance can happen anywhere.

It does not make sense that this would happen after "screening" him and checking provider references.

There would obviously be a glitch somewhere in your screening process or perhaps maybe identity theft?

TER or TBD screen names should never ever be accepted alone in your validation without at the very least, some sort of a PM dialogue with the member.

I'm sure other providers can offer you more detailed private advise to insure that this does not happen to you again.

Hope the rest of your tour works out for you here!
Please be safe.

-- Modified on 2/15/2005 1:29:14 PM

-- Modified on 2/15/2005 1:31:15 PM

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VonRyan4218 reads

Cheers!

As for the dirty rotten scoundrel...

"Balls" said the Queen..."Hang em until the rest of him falls away"...

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POONTANG4856 reads

we (NYC Gents) typically put our best foot foward with the gals.

I know this sounds like a cliche.. but as long as you are okay
everything else will fall into place!!

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JoeKolb5707 reads

what's also not nyc is guys bending over backwards to defend their favorite indies or agencies on these boards when they receive less than stellar reviews...but are nowhere to be found when something like this happens...go figure

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man_in_ny3063 reads

this guy hooked up with that girl Danielle who was running the Craigslist scam (see prior posting), who now appears to be going by the name of Tiffany on CL with comments on a "trip to Greece"...  then it would be real interesting to see who winds up with the money!!!

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Nico Veneta4916 reads

I am just kidding so please don't take offense I just found it funny.

Thanks everyone for all of your kind words. From what I have learned I got extremely lucky with this asshole today by just getting robbed. From what I have now learned about him it could have been so much worse.

Naughtiness
Kadi

PS I did screen him thru a provider reference. Not thru a TER handle. Hey I am blonde but give me a little more credit than that. LOL.

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hobo694369 reads

also sorry to hear about it all. but I'm glad you weren't hurt.

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betty_snj3004 reads

is not from a provider you KNOW...unfortunately, not every girl remembers who the guys are and, when asked for a reference, is simple to say "ohhh he's nice" and get over with than actually make an effort to make sure the guy is safe before vouching for him.
I was in MD, place that LE is very active, and saw a guy based solely on a reference from a well known local provider.
She called me in his behalf and, to make sure she was legit, I mailed her twice and she swore he was fantastic.
After my 3 hr appt was over and he was ready to leave, he sat in the bed and said he needed to come out clean with me.
Then, he explained how he was dying to see me and didn't have ANY references and used her name "gambling" on the fact she would not care or remember her johns. He told me he never saw her, but knew she was in the area for a while.
Then, he told me he was a retired cop from DC and that I should never trust another provider, unless I knew her personally.
Sorry that happened to you :(

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stilltryin253010 reads

your experience. All providers that read your post should take that advice and use it to it's fullest.

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lovely_one2984 reads

you give good advice. it's much better to go with a work reference.

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BigJake2224800 reads

But you should definitely report this to the authority.  You have nothing to hide...you didn't do anything wrong!

Please don't think all NYers are like this asshole.  Always play safe.

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clamlick2207 reads

I'm sorry you had to go through that with those animals in NYC.  I hope all is well now.  Looking forward to seeing you in Philly soon.

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Tony Souprano4729 reads

lickin for pearls...lol

OUCH!

Badabing!

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tiquillo3633 reads

We should all chip-in to make her stay worthwhile. Kadi, let's pm so we can arrange a meeting.

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