Just an opinion: Nothing wrong with anyone making a bundle of money in this profession. I just don't know how a guy overlooks that fact that they are # 8 or the 9th guy the girl has had FS with on that day. It's one thing if a girl sees one guy ever few hours. It's another if they are banging one right after another for 10-12 hours a day. As a hobbiest, for my $$$ plus, I look for something better.
I see these adds of girls "coming to NJ/NY" and they have "5-6 appointments left" when they are only coming here for three or 4 days. So how many appointments would that be in 3 days? 18-20? How good can the experience be after their 10th pounding in three days?
IMHO, go for the girls who see no more than 2-3 a day and you will get more for your money!! AND those girls who only see 2-3 guys a day, and also do not work 7 days a week, will be more "into it." To have a GFE, the girl has to be like a GF and not just a FS machine!
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You're so worried that they're banging a bunch of guys a day but on the other hand want a GFE.
That doesn't make sense at all. You want to kiss and eat out the girl when you're the 3rd guy that day?
See the irony?
Couldn't agree more. Have been with visiting escorts twice and the experience was less than satisfying. Both times felt rushed and mechanical. Never again. I now stay with the local ones I know that limit themselves and depend on regular clients.
That's why they make different favors of icecream. Everyone's kink is different, some guy may like the thought of a girl doing many clients a day. It's just not your thing. But don't go turning guys off to it, hey it's a forum do what you want.
One of the worst (boring) experiences I ever had was with a touring escort. The ladies have to make their money so that is the way it goes. Two hour appointments with nice local girls are much more satisfying.
You say 18-20, surely you are joking, try 25-30, that's most incall independents do from what I've been told which is why I prefer to stick with indy girls who outcall only.
It's one thing to go where another went that day but I don't like p***y that feels like bubblegum.
Either you're bitching that the rates are too high or that the girl has too many clients??? LOL!!! Seriously though, it's all pretty relative. The lower the rate, the more clients the provider will have, especially if she has a quota ( ie. travel expenses to cover while on tour, her personal budget ect...) Personally, starting the new year I will be fazing out my hourly visits and restructuring my services. There are many reasons for my decision, one being that my time has become increasingly limited. Another reason is I have noticed a lot of changes in this profession, especially on the internet that I would rather not be a part of, but that is just my personal opinion and I am not ragging on anyone in particular here, so please don't take offense. It's more about how the industry has evolved as a whole. Sometimes you think things are benefiting you at first look, but if you take a closer look, it might actually be the opposit.
Another thing to take into consideration when making comments about rates and how many clients a provider may have is dependent on how the lady prefers to conduct her business. Someone like myself may prefer to see a fewer gentlemen but on a consistent basis, and for this reason I would construct my rates and services in such a way, that would not only reflect in the length of the visit ( or may be over a certain period of time), but when broken down, would actually be beneficial to the client.
But that is just how I do things. Everyone is different. Everyone wants different things. It's All Good!!!
Take care everybody and Have a Happy and Safe New Year!!!
Love Kym xoxoxo
I think what the guys are saying is along the same lines that you are providing. They would prefer to see local girls who will treat them like a client. This would be espically true of the guys, like myself, who really want the GFE experience not the quick bang.
Most guys would rather not see ladies that are touring due to the amount of volume a girl has to do to make a living while visiting. If the roles were reversed and you had to see a male touring escort, at the end of the day, you would know what we mean.
I fully know what you mean! Believe me, I've been there. That is why I don't tour much at all anymore ( traveling by personal requests and touring are not the same thing). It just isn't for me. Like I said, I am going through a new faze of this business, and what you mentioned in your post is the kind of thing I am looking to provide. I may not be seeing 5-10 guys a day ( never mind 25-30 wow!!!), but it will be more consistent, satisfying emotoionally, and physically, and much more intimate.
Take care.
Love Kym xoxoxxo
First of all, too each his/her own. The people in this hobby/profession is like life itself. I cannot imagine that there is a guy out there that wants to be the 10th client on a particular day. But then again, everyone has their own sexual perversion.
I agree that the internet has done both good a bad for this profession. My point was that my experiences have been more positive with providers who see less than more on a daily basis. I understand the whole revenue versus expenses thing and understand that there is a breakeven point that must be reached in order to produce a profit for the girls. I also hope guys understand that too. Hey, it bothers me. If it doesn't bother you, then go for it.
Kim,
You are a classy lady who understands this biz. IMHO. Hopefully you will not depart from this biz. In the one year that I have actively been using this board and other similiar ones, I can understand the frustrations of some providers. This biz has definitely gone to the dogs even with the way the economy has not been too good for the working ladies. The internet is a double edged sword that provides info for ALL as well as for those folks who are a bit more abusive if not down out greedy. Just my two cents.
Thank-you Wally, it's guys like you who make me believe things are going to be fine. Don't get me wrong, I have received great benefits from a site like this, but unfortunately, it has also become a playground for those with alterior motives that have nothing to do with this business or helping each other out. I'm not going anywhere baby, just doing things a little differently.
Love Kym xoxox
Miss Regal in case your not aware, you are listed with an agency called New York Tens.
Kathy is a good friend of mine. She has a great reputation in the business and I am happy to help her out if the circumstance is beneficial.
Kym xoxox
Different strokes for different folks. I personally like to fuck a girl at the end of the night after she's been fucking since noon. I like the smell of come on her, it turns me on to know that's she's been fucked all day. One girl I used to see in a brothel, she said she never wanted to come during the day because then she wouldn't want to go into a session. But she liked to come during her last session of the night, and she would be really horny by then. This girl would fuck about ten to twelve guys a day, and I would show up at midnight to fuck her, and it was a wild ride! To each his own!
littleElvis is the KING!