The advice I have to offer is not just for ladies within the hobby, but also for any woman with whom you want to have sexual relations with.
Manscaping, while it may not be in your regular hygiene routine, it should be.  Do you really expect a woman to put your unkempt penis in her mouth, let alone go further south for a little mouth play on the boys?  This is not the 70's boys.  It is important to keep yourself neat and trim, and try to remove all hair from the parts where you are hoping to have sucked.  I am not saying you have to get a brazilian, but bring a disposible bic into the shower and spend a few minutes neating up. The women will thank you for it.

On another note, I try not to do any finger play with a woman unless I have had a manicure.  Women's privates are very receptive and they can notice the slightest hang nail.

And yes I agree with you 100 percent. I've been doing it for years and find it to beneficial as far as cleanliness and the way it is received by the women I am with.
It could be a little difficult to explain it to your wife going hairless. Especially for those of you in the hobby cause your not getting what you want at home.

Do you really expect a woman to put your unkempt penis in her mouth, let alone go further south for a little mouth play on the boys? YES I DO
 This is not the 70's boys.  It is important to keep yourself neat and trim  NEAT AND CLEAN SUFFICES

While what you suggest is certainly desirable, unfortunately, us married men could not explain away manscaping. During my many years of hobbying, no provider has ever refused to put my hair covered penis and balls into her mouth. Although manscaping would certainly be desirable to a provider,  this is not a perfect world and fortunately,uninhibited providers readily understand and accomodate us married hobbyists. YUP, that's why the get the big bucks. It's a great fucking life.

In reply to the repliers, if you read my post, this is not just for ladies you are paying for.  You should be doing it for your wife as well.  If she has a question about it tell her you did it for her, or to spice up the sex.  If you are not having sex with her, tell her it feels better that way when you masturbate, and you have to masturbate because "bitch wont put my dick in her mouth"

Man, I should get paid for my advice like Dr. Phil .....

Oh yeah...Well here's Dr.Phil's advice to you who's assuming that every hobbyist's wife is still burying her nose in a giant bush of cock hair. If she did, hobbying might be unnecessary. But I'm not complaing and simply enjoying reveling in the company of young sexually uninhibited accomodating providers who know how to make a dirty old man happy. It's a great fucking life.

The point is maybe she stopped going down because she was tired of your messy bush.  Try a little communication.  Mention that you saw an article online, and were wondering if she would think it was weirld if you trimmed a bit.  You dont have to go bald, just shave the balls and shaft.

1) Putting a razor-sharp implement anywhere near the equipment is taboo.

2) Stubble.

When the stubble comes out, it itches like hell for the guy and the prickly feeling can't be good for the woman.

I got myself a good pair of tweezers (Tweezerman brand is great) and started plucking. The first time you pluck it, it hurts, but subsequent pluckings won't hurt as much. I just did a few minutes a day while sitting on the toilet until I got it where I wanted it, then maintained it once a week. The good thing about plucking is that when it grows back and you don't have the time to maintain it, there's no prickly stubble.

After a few years of plucking, I finally did the electrolysis thing and got it permanently removed. I still have a few more sessions to get everything gone.

I started to get brazilian waxed about a year ago and will not go back to shaving because of the razor burn and stubbles and the wax last way longer then shaving

#3.  Ingrown hairs

SLB is correct about the stubble, but it is ok if you maintain.  But I have had an ingrown hair a couple of times and that does suck.  There are a few prducts at the drug store that help get rid of them.  It is best if you catch it early.  If you have ever had it happen on your beard  you know what I am talking about.

Any chick that has a problem with a guy having pubic hair is also probably the type looking to find the "perfect" guy.  You know the perfect guy - the one that cleans the bathrooms, changes diapers, cooks better than she does and cries harder at movies.  Besides, sex is meant to be wild, sweaty and messy and anyone worried about a little pube hair is probably just going to be a dead fish in bed anyway.

Great you go ahead and have your SO stop trimming down there, and make sure you only see providers with a big bush.  Do you like a big bush? (sling blade reference)

Definitely warm water to get things as nice and soft as possible. The Fusion track 4 (5?) razor is the best on the market and Keihl's shaving cream (13th Street & 3rd Ave) in the blue tube is a terrific  product. Buy the small tube as it won't be confiscated at airport security. Highly recommended products for balls AND face.