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CAtoNY 141 Reviews 2412 reads
posted
1 / 13

A number of ladies have said to make a list of ladies you’d like to meet and save their info. What’s the proper etiquette for this? Aside from the usual, introduce yourself, share contact and screening info, what else should we do? Should we mention that we’re doing this in the context of FOSTA/SESTA in order to appropriately set expectations that we’re not looking for a meeting this week or month? I want to balance appropriately reaching out while not wasting your time.

MiMi See my TER Reviews 114 reads
posted
2 / 13

It is common practice to ask for "pre-screening" for the possibility of a future date.  I - for one - have never considered it a waste of time, or problematic for any other reason.

JasmineisaRiot See my TER Reviews 117 reads
posted
3 / 13

A lot of folks are seeing their ad boards disappear, so they'll understand  the context. I think that's a good way to balance it. Good luck with your list!

kassandraelle17 See my TER Reviews 111 reads
posted
4 / 13

Great post. I think the best you can do for now is save the info of some providers you’d like to see. Providers also giving referrals is helpful too. Make sure to change your email to an encrypted account as well everyone.

Xo
Kassandra from NYC

BenneeProfane 98 Reviews 118 reads
posted
5 / 13

Why not just use the My Favorites feature right here on TER?

cks175 51 Reviews 104 reads
posted
6 / 13

Hobbyists trying to submit reviews in the last 48 hours are seeing them rejected because of no ad link.  My Favorites is a good tool for now, but things are changing on a daily basis.  Maintaining a personal list of providers you’ve established direct contact with seems the way to go for now.

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 93 reads
posted
7 / 13

I sincerely doubt that anybody will deem you a time-waster xo

CAtoNY 141 Reviews 108 reads
posted
8 / 13

Part of it is planning for a possibility where TER or P411 go down.

betty_snj See my TER Reviews 110 reads
posted
9 / 13

I would advise for you to make a list of the ladies you want to meet in the near future and contact them asap.
This way, you will be in their 'radar' as a possible future date :) in case some go UTR and be exclusive companions to few lucky gentlemen.
Our business model is going to change, real fast. New ways to keep contact with each other and new kind of terminology to name what we will portrait ourselves so you can still find us online.  
Social Companion or Dinner Date searches ? yes!  
Escort searches? RIP

AstridStone See my TER Reviews 106 reads
posted
10 / 13

Because worst case scenario: the site goes down entirely.

JosiAdams 116 reads
posted
11 / 13

Given the situation, no one will think you’re a time waster! I’m certainly seeing an increase in pre-screening requests, which I’m totally fine with. We know so much is up in the air right now. Just reach out to the women you may want to see so they have your contact info. I can’t speak for everyone, but I’m not keeping a list of people who are reaching out now to track them down later and make sure they book ;) I know they’re interested, but that may not translate into a booking down the road. Given the current situation, that doesn’t feel like a waste of time to me.  

This is a time where I think we’re all on the same page. We all want to make connections in case things get trickier.

MylaSkye See my TER Reviews 164 reads
posted
12 / 13

I’d just say you’d like to be pre-screened for the possibility of a future date.  

Also, P411 is a great resource in addition to TER.  

Have a magical day!

Gigi

viviandamore See my TER Reviews 108 reads
posted
13 / 13

P411, PM on TER, if you switch email, communicate your providers before.

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