I saw a while ago a provider who offered lessons in sensuality, technique, etc. but I don't remember who it was. I'd kinda like to get an objective critique of my technique, but you can never be sure anyone is telling the truth. So, does anyone know of any NYC providers who do stuff like this?

You might wanna check out Adrian Steel.  She is pretty sexual and will tell you what turns her on.

Not too picky about body (within reason of course.) I think I'd prefer a MILFish type since, whether it's valid or not, it would seem like someone a bit older would be good at that sort of thing.

Check out Sofia Russo.

I will be in Manhattan next week July 12th! I am confident and I enjoy what I do. When it comes to getting my pleasure I am not afraid to tell you what to do and how to do it. I'd rather guide you then sit there and suffer in silence. I will guide you thru DATY and the magic carpet ride!! wink wink.