Maybe not the place for this, but TER members warrant the tip.
Without specifics -As far from GFE as is possible
Room a pig sty. Pics are old(though she's still attarctive). Showed no interest at all in creating the GFE atmosphere BDJ is famous for.
While I was there(all of 20 minutes!) an incident with the hotel staff provoked a tirade of foul mouthed, racist remarks that amazed me.
I'd call Kim but I not the complainer type and she's too busy for a lengthy phone call.
She does need to interview these girls.

You're not the complainer type?  Yet you post publicly here?  It seems that this is something that you could have taken up with Kim privately and trying to resolve one on one first.

Keep us up to date on the back channel that
occurs between fellow hobbyists and BDJ with
regard to this incident.

Also, will you write a review?


-- Modified on 4/27/2005 2:31:39 PM

Why shouldn't it be publicly posted?  Isn't that why we use TER? If this info is kept secret, then what's the point of this whole board?

If she doesn't know it is broke, how can she fix it?

If she was that busy, she would have called you back. She takes bad sessions very seriously. Kimber is one of her new girls, so she does not know how her sessions are. I know she would appreciate the feedback.

My general rule of thumb if I am not satisfied with a session is that I discuss it with the agency/provider first. If I don't get a satisfactory resolution, then I post it on the boards.

I would still reccommend giving her a call. Good Luck!

actually, 2 weeks ago i had a not too pleasent experience with a bdj girl.  i ws kept waiting on the street for over 35 min and bdj kept telling me they'll call me back.  they never did, but i kept calling them. finally i was given the okay to go on up and out of the hotel room door was another client.  kim was tld afterwards,as i was pretty upset and i was a previous customer, but nada was done about it

I must apologize. You are all correct in that I should have called Kim directly. I guess I was just overwhelmed by the sad experience and needed to vent.
Kim, please forgive.  You have always been a stand up person, professional and courteous in every way and you run a terrific agency.
Again, I am sorry to have used this forum for the comments.
If I'd thought I'd spend this much time on the situation, I would have and should have just wrote a review.

If more members posted the good and the bad, we'd all benefit. Now it seems that a lot are afraid to speak their mind, less someone gets offended. Sort of like the inflated grades kids get in school these days. Wouldn't want to shatter their self esteem now....

I had heard about that damm messy room, I hate slobs.
Can you call me and give me details?
I would like to let guys know about any girl not just sloppy Kimber. If you think a girls room is messy and it is not comfortable looking, just leave I will not get mad. Only then will they understand atmosphere is everything.I am sorry to hear about the date, call me tonight if possible.

Kim

In my experience, the best indies and agencies appreciate it if you give them the opportunity to make it right when your experience does not meet expectations. It's always a good idea to contact the agency/indy first. Plus, you never know if you might be burning bridges.

If the situation isn't resolved, there's still plenty of time to tell your story.

JMHO,

thirsty

Your concern for our well-being is not only good for us, but helps your business grow also. Not everyone is as involved as you. Probably why you are so successful!

I agree with both sides. In this forum we are advised and we need to know that info. In Kim's case she tends to take care of business so I am sure she will address the problem. It is not like an indie because KT has loads of yummy women.

Are you talking about the pics I took of Jill and Ashley?

I checked the pics of Kimber, very hot girl.  Ashame that things were so bad for you.  Also ashame that she is nothing more than a racist.

Kim, this raises an intersting point.  Do any of your girls or your service in general, have any problems seeing clients who are not caucasian?

No. But those would be nice too. The pics of you and the ferrari! (lol)

No, THANK YOU!
After I made an honest but totally classless post that,your response showed the class I should have expected instead of fearing you'd take offense.
I wish I'd been man enough to have just called you in the first place, I just didn't want you to think I was looking for something for nothing.

I hardly ever post, or review (sorry guys, just trying to stay UTR), so I can hardly be called a shill, but this is why I almost exclusively deal with BDJ, Taylors Elite, and My Dream Girls. The women running these agencys know what they are doing. Quality control!!

It is important that all information, the good the bad and the ugly is spread around.

You should also contact Kim too and see if something can't be worked out.

Every girl on the site has a choice to the guys they see. The best thing to do is call me and ask me if the girl you want to see dates anything other than caucasian.

Hope this helps!

it brought up a VERY IMPORTANT POINT!

I do want everyone to know she is a slob and I tell her in the morning to clean up. I really have my hands tied till I get in next Friday to shoot her pics myself. I get alot of guys who do like her but the guys who don't are most likely the type of person I am most like. I hate mess and caos. It shows to me how put together a person upstairs is.My opinion is when you see a mess, you see a mess upstairs in their mind.I am very tossed up about what the next step is if she does not straighten out all of my demands how things should be.Say for example 3 guys say she is GFE and 3 guys say she is not. What do you do?

I have been hearing this through the week 50/50.

Any advice, she really is sweet but I am pulling my hair out over this!

Kim

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Kim you really only have one option. Shape up or ship out. There is no more discussion. No business can sustain it's self with a 50% client satisfaction rate.

What a waste of time, she was nutty, something is up with her i am truly dissapointed in BDJ, i tried posting my review twice already and they keep kicking it back. It was a rough day. She looks 10 years older than her pics, i wish i saw this post before i went.

Thanks Kim,
Your support here means a lot to me. You and your agency are by far the best.
You should know that the vulgarity and apparent racism turned me off even more than the sloppiness and poor,totally NON GFE service.
I'll be away the 1st part of next week, but I will call when I get back. I am in desperate need of a multi-hour with one your all-stars!

Just wondering why a working girl would want to be GFE? By GFE are you referring to bbbj,DATY, french kissing, etc.? I am a goodlooking, well dressed, clean, safe guy and girl's always want to be "GFE" with me and it turns my stomach. Why would you risk it? Of course, I am aware that I am not so special that it is just me they are like this with. The next guy that comes in gets the same treatment (regardless of how unattractive or dirty they are). I know lots of guys love this but you are a hooker and I would rather not go home and give my wife a "surprise" (STD). I try to be as safe as possible and GFE is off limits to me. You are NOT my girlfriend so why on earth would I want a girlfriend like session with you? You are all probally nice girls just trying to make a living but why would you give yourself a greater chance of AIDS than you have to? Do you not have any self respect?I'm not trying to judge you, please just fill me in.