I'd say 99.99% of the providers out there would prefer that you DO NOT walk up to them and start a conversation. Most of them lead two separate and distinct lives and the last thing they want is someone intruding into her private time and space. If it's a provider you know quite well, a subtle nod of acknowledgement is sufficient and polite. If she wants to come up to you and start a conversation she will, or she will gesture for you to come sit next to her. Otherwise, leave her ALONE! This isn't like you're trying to chat up the woman who serves you pancakes at the local diner. Show some sensitivity and some discretion.
i decided to take the train into work today instead of driving and hustling to find a parking space. on the train i have a very strong feeling that i saw brianna from julies getting on the train. she got into the next car from mine, and i almost was compelled to go and start a conversation. but then what would i say. hey how many will you see today? or how was work yesterday? things that i dont really want to know. but ultimately i started to wonder what would any of the guys or providers do if you saw a provider or hobbyist on the train?
to answer my own question i would probably do nothing more than node and smile. if it someone that i havent seen in a while then i would most likely try to get contact info without being too much of a jerk. but if im with someone else like MSO i would just keep walking. how about yall?
If you are with the SO, then I would say avoid all contact with the provider. Trying to explain how you know her could get somewhat sticky.
If you are not with your SO, then that is a different story.
If I saw a provider on the train that I felt I was friendly with, I would have no problem starting a conversation with her. I would respect her privacy, so I would not approach her if she was with someone. If she is alone, then why not talk to her. I wouldnt suggest talking about the hobby(I hate that term)with her. You could start a conversation by asking if she remembers you. That is about as far as I would go about her job as a provider. Then maybe proceed to tell her how good she looks. If she continues to talk to you, then great. If she gives you the cold shoulder, then I would say just leave her alone.
I'd say 99.99% of the providers out there would prefer that you DO NOT walk up to them and start a conversation. Most of them lead two separate and distinct lives and the last thing they want is someone intruding into her private time and space. If it's a provider you know quite well, a subtle nod of acknowledgement is sufficient and polite. If she wants to come up to you and start a conversation she will, or she will gesture for you to come sit next to her. Otherwise, leave her ALONE! This isn't like you're trying to chat up the woman who serves you pancakes at the local diner. Show some sensitivity and some discretion.
Something similar happened to me a couple years ago when I ran into Lara Nicols (remember her?) walking on 3rd Ave. She looked surprised and happy to see me, but then again I was a regular of hers. We chatted for a few minutes and talked about having lunch sometime. I wouldn't have done that with someone I had seen only once. The personality of the lady, how well you know her, are the main elements, I guess.
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