Hello, as I am pretty new to the hobby, I would like to get some clearification on a few things, can you help me?

Fist, what is the difference between the GFE and FS and are there any expectations on my part?

What is the most prefered way to contact a provider and what should one watch out for?

How does one handle the first few moments of the date ? $$?

Are there any recommended providers on the NYC area that should come to my attention?

Thanks