just out of curiosity i am wondering what providers feel about asian men? i am asking because i have emailed some providers and some ask my race and i tell them. they all reply nicely at first but i when i emailed back to confirm the time and date they don't reply. this happened to me the other day and to test if this provider was avoiding me i emailed her with another email address and i get a response right way. this is why i am reluctant to book with a big name provider because i doubt i would get my money's worth or a real pse for example. i'm a realist i understand people have their preferences and to an extent some stereotypes are true to a point, but i think i am a good looking guy, born in the USA and very american indeed. i like sports, beer, cars the usual man things and i can talk about anything. just wanted to know what some people or providers think.

thanks!

First of all I like ALL men!!! but.....

The 2 things I do not understand about your post is
1. Do Asian men have a negative stereotype? If anything I think it's opposite as Asian men tend to be very well mannered, respectful guys in my experience.

2. If what u r asking about were even true, what does it have to do with a big name provider?

I don't know, I can only speak for myself but the answer here my friend is 'no'. No problem
At all with Asianmem

My Asian guys are mostly like you, born in the US, educated and...young!
I love them, they are very nice, respectful and...super clean and groomed.
I never had a single problem with my Asian regulars, so I think you should not worry about the ladies who doesn't want to see you...others will welcome your business with pleasure.

xoxoxo

Betty

First of all I like ALL men!!! but.....

Personally I enjoy asain men, they always treat you with the utmost respect. Most in my experience tend to be very giving and generous lovers as well.  Great Hygiene as well what is the negative here.. cant find one.

when you have Asian sex an hour later you are hungry for it again ????

As an American Blonde, Asians tend to love me. They're respectful and not too pushy, easily pleased, and seem to really worship a woman's body. And generally understand that tipping is appreciated.

You can usually see it in their eyes right away. I should have passed, but back then, I would let the wrong head do the thinking.

Ironically, my worst experience was with an Asian provider. Since then, I've noticed that Asian women who grew up in American culture have the most contempt for Asian men.

When making initial contact, I usually tell them my race whether they ask or not. If they have a problem, it's easier to move on to the next provider when you're just making contact, rather than at the door and you walk away with blue balls. Yes, I've had a few girls stop replying as soon as they find out, but hey, with so many other options, I just move on.

It happens to a lot of minority men.  I'm black and see upscale providers (you can tell if you look at my reviews) and i get this as well ( a few times).  I email a provider and she answers back but when she asks me to say something about myself I tell her I am Black and I never hear back.  i have even done what you did and emailed her again from a differenct email address and told her I was another race and she was happy to see me.  My only problem is when it is not stated clearly on thir website.  I have been on about 7-9 so-called dates in my life where I was actually standing at the hotel door only to be told "sorry I don't see men of color".  Look back a year or so ago and you'll see my posts on the NYC board about this (regarding a not to be mentioned provider).  I have total respect for a women that does not want to see guys for whatever reason-too fat, ugly, race, whatever...But don't leave me standing at the hotel door when we made an appt. and then you tell me...You just have to move on and now whenever a email a provider a put my race in my opening sentence and go from there.   I actually used to go to a agency and got friendly with one of the ladies and she told me all the girls that worked there that did not see black men (they were all white women), funny thing was that some of them had black men as boyfriends...Most of these boyfriends did not know their so-called girl was a provider...i even hung out a few times with them and tried to get them to explain why they had a black boyfriend but would not see black men when they were providing....Anyway like I said just move on and the funny thing is that most of the women that turned me down because of my race where black women..i am not a hip hop type with baggy jeans, I make well into six figures but i guess it is all the same...Hhhhmmmmm......

... frankly, you are the prize here, not the girl, provider or not.  Any provider that won't see you is unfortunately trapped by her own limited mind, and frankly, it's ironic to me because of their liberal profession.  I wouldn't be surprised if there were a high correlation between poor self-esteem and racial discrimination by a provider - I mean, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being a provider, sex is normal and men seeking it for whatever reason is human nature - but to discriminate against others is frankly to discriminate against themselves.  Remember that you are the prize, know it and believe it and apply it to all parts of your life!

Neither Provider nor Hobbyist are free from rejection.  Each time you participate the more likely it is sure to occur.  Experience has taught me to be less concerned with those who do not wish to patronize and reserve my passion and efforts for those who will allow me the opportunity.  

Tender thoughts...

hey everybody thanks for the replies. you guys gave me some new points of view. i also agree with stripclubaddict and i have total respect for women and their preferences and as of late i clearly state what i am in my contacts first before meeting. this way it saves my time and the providers time. i didn't want to start some race thing and i am a realist i know people have preferences so i'm not going to let it bother me too much!

Who not like Asian guy?  Thas soo stupid!   When I see hooker, we have lucky best fun time, 100%.  I resprectful crient.   The hooker rike me, I rikee they.   I crean, reducated, rell mannered.  Also my cock not too big rike the Brack guy.   Merican hooker girl, I come now!

What in the HAIL...lol!

But, I guess that opens your schedule for the likes of me!  *wicked grin*  Their loss is definitely my gain...

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I absolutely love asian man, especially the ones who are smart and have eyeglasses.
They just turn me on...
In my private life I have asian secret lovers who I pick up in College...
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As long as you treat them with respect, they will do the same for you.  There are times where you might not click together, thats totally different. But it seems that you're a well respected gentlemen.  Good luck!

Kicks

And what was you're point Fuk?  Always at least one silly post on an interesting and serious topic.