I may be looking for the impossible ... But someday I'd like to know where an older gent might look if he wanted to find a sensual and erotic woman of maturity, patience and experience who would enjoy teaching the pleasures of a strap on .... And who happened to be near Midtown on jan 11 and 12. I'm not drawn to heavy or hardcore domination, but rather more to someone who knows haw to take control and enjoys guiding another into erotic and shared adventures.