Posted By: Chloe_Carter
In regards to your question, "I have one question that you did not address. Once we locate the mysterious G spot, what pressure do we exert on the area, method of stroking (circular, vertical....), one finger, two or three, length of time concentrating on the G spot vs alternating between the G spot and the clit/labia? In movies I have seen, they vigorously stroke the area to what looks like abusive behavior with pressure on the outside of that area (mons)." please read below:
You say the underside of one's cock: "The vigorous stroking (horizontally rather than vertically with your two fingers or the underside of your cock on the clit) is what I call the eruption of 'Volcano St Helens'" but my understanding through my years is that the G spot is located on the females stomach front side, what would be in general area terms the same depth and location of the underside of the clit. How would the underside of the cock, that being the side facing the anus is located? Inserting ones fingers pointing forward under the inside of the clit region inside approx 1.5-2.5" deep upwards - Correct? It has worked that way.
I also agree that the mind is the largest sex organ and just as a women can come and squirt just with her mind when turned on, so does the man. Stimulate the mind and the rest is easy.
So what about a course at the New School?
What I have noticed with my body is that yes, G-Spot definitely works well but sucking or tickling the clit with your tongue at the same time makes me squirt. Every woman's body is different so some techniques that I am suggesting to you may not work for everyone, however, I would start with getting a woman horny first (ie. kissing, sucking, licking, pinching etc) the more you get a woman turned on the easier it is for her to squirt (that is if she REALLY wants to squirt!). Since I've been doing this for a while I can squirt without any G-Spot or clitoral stimulation - just being really turned on with someone, I can squirt by embracing and kissing. For me, my aphrodisiac is my 'mind'.
The vigorous stroking (horizontally rather than vertically with your two fingers or the underside of your cock on the clit) is what I call the eruption of 'Volcano St Helens' (!) and when I'm really into it I spray warm wetness all over my partners chest and stomach and sometime their face and all over myself! It's a sight to see for sure!
Posted By: whitelightening
In NYC there is the New School, which has classes on a multitude of subjects, techniques, etc. You should give classes to both men and women on this subject witha live demonstration as art classes have nude models it acceptable to have a female (alone with a toy) or a couple illustrating how, where and the results.
I have one question that you did not address. Once we locate the mysterious G spot, what pressure do we exert on the area, method of stroking (circular, vertical....), one finger, two or three, length of time concentrating on the G spot vs alternating between the G spot and the clit/labia?
In movies I have seen, they vigorously stroke the area to what looks like abusive behavior with pressure on the outside of that area (mons).
Just questions to teach the male population and intrigue the female population into this exciting foreplay.
Just to note, I have encountered a squirter one time, and it was GREAT, slightly salty, no flavor, no scent.
The convulsive movements during, and after for sometime was especially pleasing. She explained she did not have to exert pressure, it just happens when DATY'd along with manual stimulation. She also said "it was a frame of mind". "Women, when they feel that urge to pee they think they will pee and immediately pull back the muscles. If they would let the feeling build, it is not pee", but they are afraid and embarrassed".
Keep us informed.
Posted By: Chloe_Carter
So, I'm sure many of you have heard of Female Ejaculation (ie. Squirting) and well, I just wanted to put it out there that is indeed REAL. I have been a squirter now for 4 years and how it came about was more curiosity than anything. I had seen videos of girls doing it and well, I have to say I was quite intrigued. The only dilemma I had was if I learned to squirt could I come only like that and never clit-orally? Well, it turned out to be both. The first time I did it was with my BF I was very horny and he asks if I'd ever squirted. I said no but I definitely wanted to experiment from the videos I saw. I got that 1. You must be horny and excited 2. You have to really WANT to squirt 3. Hitting the G-Spot is imperative (but not always necessary!) 4. When you feel like you're going to 'pee' you bear down to expel your wetness. Sometimes it comes in gushes, other times - spray - it really depends on your body. Practice is the key.
Wikipedia says "It appears that the majority of laymen believe that something is forcibly squirted (or propelled or extruded), or expelled from the woman's body in orgasm, and should so happen normally, as in the man's case. Finally it is just as certain that such an 'ejaculation' does not take place in many women of sexually normal functions, as that it does take place in others."
One of the many questions I get with my partners are 1. Can you control it? answer: yes 2. Are you multi-orgasmic? answer: yes 3. Does it taste and smell good or bad? answer: my smell is neutral to pleasant and my taste is supposedly like lightly salted popcorn (lol) 4. How far can you spray? answer: 1 inch to 7 feet* (*I have sprayed 7 feet when I was horned up all day for a very sexy BDAY night with multiple partners teasing and playing with me).
Squirting is a myth to many but it is not a parlour trick; peeing comes from the urethral opening and squirting comes from the walls of the vagina near the G-Spot. When I squirt I bear down and depending on how horny I am at the time I squirt bigger and longer - when I am getting head I tend to control my orgasmic flow with small gushes (though sometimes I cannot help my self if the 'pleaser' knows what he's doing (!) and wants me to go crazy (believe me, I get a lot of guys wanting me to spray them all over!) heehee
At first, I was a bit shy cum-ing this way but to be honest not only is it God's way of giving ALL women the access and ability to this beautiful natural gift of lubricantion (it is wet AND slippery) but it can add to your sexual adventures and life. An extra gift with this is becoming multi-orgasmic. Never have I been able to be stimulated for such long times with my partners.
Men: It is is REAL.
Women: Try it. Once you do it you will LOVE it.
The only thing is: to be prepared to have a LOT of towels! (and googles for the men!)
Kisses and Namaste,
xoxoxoxox
Chloe