Posted By: mr_puzzled
I've always been at least a two pop kind of guy.
So much so that it would sometimes even be a dealbreaker for me when selecting my next rendezvous. I remember one time about 4 years ago where one ATF of mine actually managed to get me to pop THREE times in the first HALF HOUR. (She had taken it on as a bit of a challenge and I couldn't help but be a bit impressed with both her and myself.)
It started out slowly about a year ago. Once in awhile that 2nd pop just wouldn't arrive despite my best efforts. At first I just chalked it up to exhaustion or the mood just "not being right".
However, my last three dates have left me disappointed in myself. First pop came as scheduled, followed by an intermission. Round two became more and more difficult to get going but eventually did. After exhausting both of ourselves, I would just have to throw in the towel, apologize to her that it just wasn't going to happen again.
This evening I met with a very sexy young lady with whom I've seen many times. She knows how to turn me on, she knows what I like without asking. When she couldn't get the 2nd pop out of me I became convinced that I had crossed over to the category of "one pop guy."
I honestly, albeitly naively, never thought this would happen to me. But on the bright side, I think I will just have to change my approach to my dates. Actually I think this might make me a better lover in the long run, forcing me to focus on quality instead of quantity.