How important is it?

I think most (if not all) of the girls who will whitelist you will also give you a reference.

It's a little handy if you want to schedule on short notice.  It's too late for her to contact your references, but she can see that you are whitelisted.  But, I don't how many women (if any) will accept x number of whitelist entries in place of a live reference.

But like looking a a web site or looking up a review is just one piece of the puzzle for a guy making a decision, I think whitelist entries are just one piece of the puzzle for a woman making a decision to see someone.

Does it affect your decision to see someone?

When I see hobbists with 15-20 reviews & not 1 whitelist it makes ?, so yes I would say it makes a huge factor to me personally.

If a dude...well lets say ME for instance , contacted you in hopes of arranging a little rendezvous and made reference to his White List Referrals as the easiest way for you to screen and you notice a couple ladies on there that you knew very well...even did doubles with them....well are you really saying that would not give you a certain level of comfort?

I've never asked a lady to "white list" me.  Actually was kinda surprised when I notice I had a few. I appreciate the fact that a babe would take the time to vouch for me and frankly always felt it was a great tool for the ladies.  

You certainly have the right to your opinion and I have no doubt there are individuals gaming the system but all in all I know it has been an asset for me and a useful feature for the ladies.

If I am connecting via TER and I have short notice request.  It's usefulness is up to ladies, but I think it has made scheduling new ladies for me and I appreciate a lady recognizing me with recorded endorsement

At the risk of sounding like a broken record, it has helped for last minute connections with girls I've never met before.
Some girls take whitelist references, some don't. Some girls take RS2K references, some don't. Some girls only accept verified references from other girls. I try to have several references from different sources. Basically, I can give the provider whatever references she wants. It just speeds up the screening process and increases her level of comfort with me.

I didn't even know about the whitelist until I was told that my TER whitelisting was good enough. I had to ask her "whats a whitelist?"
Apparently, you can lose a whitelist reference too. I lost a whitelist reference when I had a brain-fart and started looking for the provider's address on the wrong street.

I think whitelists definitely has it's purpose.  I am a very busy guy professionally but I have a good amount of whitelists and OK's on P411.  Rarely do I have to take the time now to physically give a reference with website, e-mail, phone number, etc. which is very convenient and saves me a lot of time that I don't have.  Although I am more of an indy sensual massage/light fetish guy now, when I do step out into the darkside a lady can see all the women that vouch for me and in many cases they are women they know or have done doubles with....so it gives the provider a sense of confidence, I guess.  I have no idea if my whitelists are ever contacted...but it seems to work for me when I point to my referrals on TER/P411.

Perfecto

it's uses, there are many, many ladies I know who have never used it and have no intention to use it.  while that may make reserving an appt more work for you and me, I completely understand it's THEIR choice just as it's OUR choice to continue or move on to a lady who accepts them.

So I would Say Its Important.. It aids the screening process and saves time. Nothing like a vouch from a  well reviewed lady when you are trying to get a last minute appointment.

But like everything done in the world people will always find a shortcut to try and beat the system. Even if a gentleman is whitelisted I still check who whitelisted him. The background of the provider and board presence tells a lot.

When and if I whitelist someone, it means alot to me. That I am openly vouching for this gentleman. I am not in the habit of white-listing every single guy. I have white-listed only those who I know other ladies would thoroughly enjoy spending time with. I have white-listed even when not requested because I think he is a gem in his own right. I feel the same when it comes to date-check and p411.

This is a business and I think that white-listing and such and also referenceing others is a great way to keep everyone safe and happy and make sure a good time is had by all.

There are some who don't give references, don't white list or anything and I always wondered why. I am sure they have their own reasons, but to me its good business and a way to always be safe in who we as providers see, and by those who hobbiest see..

Just makes for an easier and more relaxed playtime..isn't that what it is all about?

Having whitelistings from a few well-known and regarded ladies has been helpful, and is greatly appreciated.   Several years ago, when I attended my first M&G in Vegas and didn't know anyone there, the host accepted a whitelisting from a provider he had also seen, and knew was cool, as being adequate for screening purposes.  It has also proven useful in seeing several providers here in NYC and elsewhere, but I regard this as being a secondary form of reference, and don't depend on it primarily when I am looking to meet someone new.

Whitelisting is cool, but Date-check is a better service. #1- Your references on DC don't expire if the provider decides to leave the biz. #2- Reviews and whitelisting do not mix and on DC reviews don't get in the way. #3- Very easy to hit the we met button on DC, very user friendly to make a request. #4 An Agency can reference you on DC, but can't on TER bc of LE reasons. BTW I am friends with many providers on this site and most don't want to be giving out references all the time, obviously they are very busy.

TER has always been very helpful & I greatly appreciate this awesome community!

Cheers!


I have not been on date-check in awhile, but will attempt to update my profile ASAP.