TER member rip me off with the money, I mad big mistake not counting
I don't believe this happening from TER members, he emailed me his TER id and he saw my donations, and i mad a big mistake not counting,
im no longer offering discount to TER members and i have to watch the time now and count my money,
do i have to keep quite and this guy keep ripping of the girls, or should i put his number online
i called him and he doesnt asner
if you dont have money we done need you,
I wouldn't recommend outing him in public. That could do more damage to you than him in the long run. However, you could discuss him in the girls only board and see if others have had that experience. Also, you could revisit your screening habits and see if they need to be tightened.
And if he left just a few bucks under what he should have... is it possible he simpy made a mistake? Did you try contacting him afterwards?
Posted By: HootOwl
I wouldn't recommend outing him in public. That could do more damage to you than him in the long run. However, you could discuss him in the girls only board and see if others have had that experience. Also, you could revisit your screening habits and see if they need to be tightened.
And if he left just a few bucks under what he should have... is it possible he simpy made a mistake? Did you try contacting him afterwards?
If he avoids you, out him on the provider only board (if it's allowed), otherwise just have ladies email or PM you so you can tell them who he is.
Also, you can put him on various black lists (again, only if he fails to resolve the situation).
But it does suck that you were surprised, and not in a good way.
Contact him first, and see what he says.
It is always possible that it could have been a mistake; you should contact him by email and simply and gently explain that your donation was X and he gave you Y, and could he correct that. That may solve the problem.
Even I, the perfect hobbiest, once made a mistake myself, and only realized it once I got home; I sent an email immediately and corrected the mistake the next time. I will note, also, that on several occasions I made a mistake by leaving too much (or the lady thought I had), and each time the provider emailed me to tell me and offered to remedy this. So my experience (and of course milage may vary) has only been positive (and this is in thirty years of the hobby). On the other hand, the world is also populated by a large proportion of jerks, so that is of course another possibility.
So, you said that he emailed you his TER ID. If this was email and not a PM, then it could be any Tom, Dick or Harry. I could say that I was Vadhaman (OK, so that wouldn't be the wisest move if I actually wanted to see you - LOL!) or BeefEater or any other handle I so desired. Hell, I can even get an email that would be similar to the handle, like BJluvr69_1234, just to make it look legit.
Do this gig long enough and you will get ripped off, no matter what side of the sheets you're on. Question is, how do you handle it?
If you got shorted, and he has disappeared, then let the ladies know on the PO board or have them PM/email you for his info. What I question is the wisdom of shit-canning part of your marketing strategy (such as discounts for TER members) because of one knit-wit, and I would doubly emphasize this if he emailed you his handle (and it wasn't via PM), and you didn't double-check it.
In this den of iniquity, I especially believe in the old cold-war maxim, "Trust, but verify."
Posted By: ghost_of_Brett_Favre
So, you said that he emailed you his TER ID. If this was email and not a PM, then it could be any Tom, Dick or Harry. I could say that I was Vadhaman (OK, so that wouldn't be the wisest move if I actually wanted to see you - LOL!) or BeefEater or any other handle I so desired. Hell, I can even get an email that would be similar to the handle, like BJluvr69_1234, just to make it look legit.
Do this gig long enough and you will get ripped off, no matter what side of the sheets you're on. Question is, how do you handle it?
If you got shorted, and he has disappeared, then let the ladies know on the PO board or have them PM/email you for his info. What I question is the wisdom of shit-canning part of your marketing strategy (such as discounts for TER members) because of one knit-wit, and I would doubly emphasize this if he emailed you his handle (and it wasn't via PM), and you didn't double-check it.
In this den of iniquity, I especially believe in the old cold-war maxim, "Trust, but verify."
She isn't able to verify guys. She refuses to give references and therefore other girls won't give references for her.
Posted By: Aliasshole
Posted By: ghost_of_Brett_Favre
So, you said that he emailed you his TER ID. If this was email and not a PM, then it could be any Tom, Dick or Harry. I could say that I was Vadhaman (OK, so that wouldn't be the wisest move if I actually wanted to see you - LOL!) or BeefEater or any other handle I so desired. Hell, I can even get an email that would be similar to the handle, like BJluvr69_1234, just to make it look legit.
Do this gig long enough and you will get ripped off, no matter what side of the sheets you're on. Question is, how do you handle it?
If you got shorted, and he has disappeared, then let the ladies know on the PO board or have them PM/email you for his info. What I question is the wisdom of shit-canning part of your marketing strategy (such as discounts for TER members) because of one knit-wit, and I would doubly emphasize this if he emailed you his handle (and it wasn't via PM), and you didn't double-check it.
In this den of iniquity, I especially believe in the old cold-war maxim, "Trust, but verify."
She isn't able to verify guys. She refuses to give references and therefore other girls won't give references for her.
You had a bad thing happen, and it stinks! This has nothing to do with the ny board gents honey,PM me! Xo
For one bad apple we all must suffer.
Chalk it up to business and move on.
You have been in this game a lot longer than you would care to admit, am sure it has happened before. Look at it from the other side of the equation, if we as hobbyists make an appt, the lady is late, a no show or does not perform because her mind is elsewhere, or shorts time, takes tel calls etc, dont you think we feel ripped off too.
Its all part of the game darling.
The marketplace will not bear your full freight any longer, all VIP providers are cutting quiet deals with newbie clients and old established clients.
Dont cut your nose off because one bad apple shorted you.
BTW how much did he short you?
Posted By: carmenbanks
TER member rip me off with the money, I mad big mistake not counting
I don't believe this happening from TER members, he emailed me his TER id and he saw my donations, and i mad a big mistake not counting,
im no longer offering discount to TER members and i have to watch the time now and count my money,
do i have to keep quite and this guy keep ripping of the girls, or should i put his number online
i called him and he doesnt asner
if you dont have money we done need you,
Nor does her rate justify his behavior.....He shoudve never signed up.
Also, I'm VIP and have cut NO deals with newbies or regulars, ever.
I hear this over & over again from all providers young to old, so why not count the $ 1st ladies?
Just because one Deadbeat Please do not punish us all TER Guys. If you want to throw him "under the bus" go ahead.
...in my case a "Prominent Provider" whom I previously had some good times with....planned a summer trip with, gave a deposit, which I had always done in the past.....then I get a story, she can't make the trip.....she has had changes in her life.....now she can't see me and guess what, no return on the deposit.....c'est la vie....but the black karma cloud is just getting ready to make its run....because what does come around will go around and in multiples...
Then again the best revenge is to live well and better, already in progress!.....lol!
File under live and learn......
