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instead of whining about the shit, just move on. no one is going to change for you! eom.
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Posted By: Monk69
I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.  
   
 I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  
   
 I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

Monk69815 reads

I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.

I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  

I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

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BiancaJaguar444 reads

That is a lot...I ask for 2...but i will take one if thats all they can give me...+ the rest..name...etc
We all have our method of screening...if one doesn,t do it...I'm sure another one will ;)
BJ xxx

Related Link: http://www.biancajaguar.com/

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toofuckingstupid328 reads

Posted By: Monk69
I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.  
   
 I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  
   
 I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

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nycad385 reads

The provider has the right of refusal if you don't follow their screening. If you're not happy with that, there's plenty of other opportunities.  

Cheers!

-nycad

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inicky46318 reads

So why is four a deal-breaker?

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BiancaJaguar454 reads

Posted By: inicky46
So why is four a deal-breaker?
I do not ask for 3 references and still consider myself pretty damn smart....
BJ
Related Link: http://www.biancajaguar.com/

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toofuckingstupid396 reads

providers who are lax on screening scream desperate for money to me and put others at risk. not saying that's you, but they do exist and are usually the same ones having to beg for business all day long.  

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Posted By: inicky46
So why is four a deal-breaker?
 I do not ask for 3 references and still consider myself pretty damn smart....  
 BJ

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inicky46370 reads

Wasn't meaning to imply you're not smart.  Perhaps you are, perhaps not.  But, just to elaborate, there are lots of different ways girls screen and the number of references isn't the be-all and end-all. A guy could provide employer info, or have a bunch of OKs on P411 and Date-Check, for example. Or white lists here.  Or, if he's a reviewer, you can check with the gals who've reviewed him.  And so on.

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Back_In_Black418 reads

The 10/10 talk lately ! Yup it really is that simple. L8r.

But devin plays fair . Yeah u do ! Others should be more like her . Even though she's mean 2me.

Posted By: Monk69
I contacted a well-reviewed provider off of an Eros ad this week and she asked me for four (!) references. Really? That was in addition to employer info.  
   
 I'm as sensitive to the need for screening as the next guy, but there has to be a limit. Either you trust a reference, or not.  
   
 I tend to see a lot of UTR providers, so this just doesn't work for me. But, beyond that, if you really think about it, asking for four references means you're asking to see hobbyists who are regular players—guys who are seeing quite a few providers a month. Which, I would argue, isn't necessarily the safest way of going about your business in the first place.

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