Looking for a provider. Tried to connect with a few but I'm also not verified with anyone and I'm not willing to register with one that verifies with my job. Also don't have any references. I'm fairly discrete and my career is important to me.
I am more than willing to provide other info or verify in other ways. Any providers out there reading this, feel free to PM me. I'll be in Manhattan on Thursday and Friday and am looking to connect in the evenings. Anyone with newbie friendly suggestions?
1. many FBSM providers will see you without references. If you are truly a newbie, that might not be a bad place to start anyway. Such a provider can then be a reference going forward.
2. Assuming you are staying at a hotel, some providers might be ok with you just providing the hotel and room #.
It's easy to deal with P411 to get verified because you can actually speak with someone. Then just pick on of the gals listed there as "Newbie Friendly." Once you seen her, ask her for an OK. With two OKs you can see pretty much anyone.
A fair number of upscale providers won't see gentlemen without references due to the LE/serial killer risk. Seeing providers is easy once you have a reference that confirms you're safe, but getting there is a bit of a challenge for a newbie.
I understand you're very cautious in regard to your employer and fear of losing your career, but I honestly think you might have to take the chance of having a provider/verification website (P411, DC, etc) verify your employment since most providers won't see you blindly.
However, if you find a provider that sees you blindly.. good luck. (I'm not being facetious, I just really hope all goes well and it's a reputable lady.)
Problem with this is and I'm sure you have heard it is they get nasty once you ask them to sign up for P411. They go on that their info is now with someone else. There is no happy medium lol. But guys if you seem upfront with the girl and are willing to work with her and go to p411 and give work info to make her feel better, I will tell you it will make a difference in your session! At least it does for me. Feeling at ease and respected makes me melt like butter
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(I'm not being facetious, I just really hope all goes well and it's a reputable lady.)