cleanliness and hygiene moreso than they don't enjoy it. There was a post within the last few weeks on just this topic.

I find that nothing is appreciated quite as much by a provider as when I wash up prior to us starting the festivities. Attention to hygiene goes a long, long way in this hobby!

Once upon a time there was not loads of information on the net about anything really.

Now we have a plethora of info at our fingertops about absolutely anything at all.

Fingers inside tear vaginal walls.
Fingers inside causes bladder infections, UTI, yeast infections.
If i man has groomed nails- and washed his hands with MY soap beforehand. It generally isn't a problem. I do not let every man i seee do that.

The money hungry one says:

Your 250 or 200 isnt worth my health..
Why do men do it anyhow.
What is it your are digging for ? Gold ? There isn't any. We arent hiding any trinkets in there. I promise

Let the flogging begin.

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Re:Anyone else notice the disturbing trend of more and more providers disallowing

I have noticed it too. I always use one specific finger, keep the nail filed down to nothing so there is no tear risk, always wash my hands before we start, show her the filed fingernail and ask NICELY if it is all right, offering to stop if the finger, accompanied by my tongue skills, aren't the best thing she has ever had. That usually gets the finger in, then I have to make good on the promise. Gotta respect the ladies, they appreciate it.

Buy some finger cots. They're cheap. Or some latex gloves.

Finger cots are about $3.00 per set of 60 at your local drug store.  

What are they?  Little condoms for the fingers.

Rarely have any problems with this, have baby fresh hands, move slow and easy... it's all about the quality of your touch, develop a good touch and the girls are yours... my current ATF suggests that you don't come in drunk, not even buzzed as when you are wasted you lose your sensitivity...

Build up trust over several session, always be squeaky clean, sober, and considerate... you'll get what you came for..

ATF recently had a client who brings a bag of food, pulls out a bottle and proceeds to get bombed, washing down the chips with the booze, then flops on top of her and "wants to party"... she wouldn't even kiss the guy, who would ? Bourbon breath, fingers covered with crud, giving her a hard time 'coz he's pissed at his wife or boss or some problem...

After these experiences she's not wide open to every guy she meets until there's some trust

they can pick up lots of infections from your dirty nail.