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If I could I would.....
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There are so many beautiful starlets in our galaxy... I wish I could see all of them. I wish I could see all of them as often and as much as I'd like to. Sigh... but I'm just a workin' man so this means I'm very careful in my choices. I'm very, very deliberate in who I pick and choose to spend time with. So the long and short of my answer is that my hobbying is quite infrequent because economics are what they are... Now I'm not talkin' pity talk here, it is just what it is. So I study my options very carefully before I make my choices and usually if I click with a provider, I might see her several times over the period of several months. It becomes a very intimate and enjoyable encounter when I develop a provider / hobbyist relationship this way. But as I said, if economics were different for me, I'd change things up to be more frequent with my experiences.  

nycad

So a question to both ends of the business....

Gentlemen (and ladies who partake in provider services), would you rather use your budget to see a provider, say, an hour every week or save up and have one blowout session, say every 6-8 weeks?

And to our lovely providers...would you rather see a guy for an hour every week or only once every 6-8 weeks but have it turn into a massive session?

I have my preferences but those are based around the realities of my "real" life and budgetary constraints.



-- Modified on 11/1/2013 3:02:15 AM

Once a week vs. once every 6-8 weeks?

Assuming the same money, even at the very cheap rate of $300 per hour, you are talking about a session for between 1800 and 2400.  For that much money, what kind of blowout are you talking about?  An overnight?  Or a 5 girl one guy party?

Hands down, I'd go for the weekly.  Who wants to be abstinent for 2 months, just to have 1 day of fun.  Hell, if I could happily be abstinent for 2 months I'd be much richer.  :-

..... an all-night/all-day isn't enough to hold me off for 6-8 weeks lol.  Sure I might need about 2 days to recuperate but eh.

So .... 1 hr every week please.

I think a once a week thing is the way to go, especially if you find a provider that you click with.  

As far as the 6-8 weeks in between option?  I might have a blow out of my own in that time frame!  LOL
 

Posted By: TrulyMsMocha
..... an all-night/all-day isn't enough to hold me off for 6-8 weeks lol.  Sure I might need about 2 days to recuperate but eh.  
   
 So .... 1 hr every week please.

I definitely find it to be flattering and greatly appreciate it when someone finds spending time with me fulfilling enough to be compelled to see me on a weekly basis.  I am not often in one place long enough to provide this kind of company to anyone on a consistent basis, but there are several cities in which I spend 2-3 months throughout the year, and keep doing so year after year.  For this reason I suspect I do not have as many "one hour per week" visitors as many other ladies might, but I do have some and enjoy those relationships.

While I find regularity to be enjoyable as a deeper friendship can develop over time, I do tend to prefer to spend more time with someone than just an hour, as this deepens the potential for developing trust, feeling comfortable, taking one's time, exploring certain kinky or sensual realms that cannot be explored over the course of an hour, going on an adventure together, developing romance, and developing a certain kind of fondness that develops from experiencing someone outside the bedroom.  I also particularly do enjoy some types of public or semi-public play, under the right circumstances, and that is usually only possible with a longer engagement.

Regularity is fun in this type of session also, and spending an entire evening or a whole night with someone every 2-3 months often allows me to get to know them over time in a deeper way than I am ever able to get to know gentlemen who see me weekly for one hour.  But then again, that may be due to my lack of permanent location also.

There are so many beautiful starlets in our galaxy... I wish I could see all of them. I wish I could see all of them as often and as much as I'd like to. Sigh... but I'm just a workin' man so this means I'm very careful in my choices. I'm very, very deliberate in who I pick and choose to spend time with. So the long and short of my answer is that my hobbying is quite infrequent because economics are what they are... Now I'm not talkin' pity talk here, it is just what it is. So I study my options very carefully before I make my choices and usually if I click with a provider, I might see her several times over the period of several months. It becomes a very intimate and enjoyable encounter when I develop a provider / hobbyist relationship this way. But as I said, if economics were different for me, I'd change things up to be more frequent with my experiences.  

nycad

Exactly...that's kinda where I'm at. I work hard for the money I get and, being a responsible sod, take care of "real life" commitments first, as much as possible (rent, bills, tuition, etc.)....I squirrel away a little money each week to allow me some...free time.  

And in most things in life, I live by an old Yiddish proverb: If you should eat pork, let it drip from your beard. When I go get a bottle of scotch, I'll spring for that 31yr old scotch for $300 because I know I'll be able to savor it for quite a while and make it last (I've had some scotches open for years, I parcel them out so much!).

The same with this hobby. I'm relatively new to it all, admittedly, but I would rather save up and have a 2 3 or 4 hour massive session with a memorable lady (or ladies!) every once in a blue moon. Also, things can be rather season-based...my job picks up big-time during the holiday season so my free time for things like this is cut to almost zero...on the other hand, during the summer, I can usually swing an extra day off here and there so I'll make up for lost time, shall we say?

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