Hello everyone,
 
Just became a member. I've dabbled in being a "hobbyist" for  few years now, but only with men. I consider myself to be primarily attracted to men, but I have always been interested in trying out sex with woman. Since I will be in the city for a few days, I suppose now is as good a time as any. Any recommendations of providers that would not mind initiating me? I've contacted one provider and was told that I was too young for her. Thank you.  

**Note to moderator, I'm not sure how to delete my first post and I think I put it in the wrong board. Please let me know if this is not allowed.

Not having any references, and being young, is.

You should join one of the screening services, get verified by your employment, then contact like 5 girls of your choice.  I wouldn't tell her you've never been with a girl before since most girls will see that as a turn-off, but you should be upfront that you're a newbie in the hobby and young.  As far as who you like in your personal life, that is no ones business but your own.

If she needs your business, she may give you a shot.  If she's busy with others, she'll probably pass- don't take it personally.  4/5 will probably pass on you since you're young.

Just walk in the session and trying kissing- see if you have any physical reaction to her.  If you don't react to her, just leave the entire donation, tell her you're too nervous, and then maybe you know that you are truly not into girls. Embrace being gay.  Gay men are HOT commodities esp in NYC.  It's no longer something to be ashamed of.

*Edit:  if you're in college and don't have a job or much money, skip the first part of my advice and to backpage.  Amateur escorts don't have as strict standards in screening as pros do.  Maybe start there.  

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Thank you for your response. While I'm actually quite well off for a college student; however, I think I'm going to forgo hiring a provider. Your post helped me realize that wanting to have sex with a woman just because I want to know what it's like may not be a very nice thing to do.

Out of curiosity, why are escorts wary of taking on young clients?

I've gone my whole life without being with a girl either and am not even curious to try. At least if you're curious you can try an escort, get it out of your system, and she won't be hurt if you never call her again.

Escorts don't like young guys usually cuz they usually have an unrealistic fantasy in their head of what we do (based on porn?)  Experience just makes an encounter more comfortable for both people

If I'm your type, please get into my email list for Manhattan.  I have been with lots of men who have minimal experience with women and it doesn't bother me at all that you're exploring.  I don't have anything against younger guys.  And also, if you are versatile, enjoy stuff like prostate stimulation or watersports, and/or are attracted to women with body hair and natural pheromones, we will be a very good match.