I was browsing the ads and saw a post for a provider who I recognized as a friend of a friend in real life. I don't really know her, but I've always found her attractive.

I would like to make an appointment with her, but would your average provider be spooked by being contacted by somebody who knows her from another context entirely?

Thoughts anyone?

K

IMHO it's best to leave her alone, she may not want you to approach her.

Yeah, I've been thinking about it and I think you're right. Of course she has boundaries between her personal and professional life. The right thing to do is be mindful of that, refrain from contacting her, and keep this accidentally gained information to myself.

Alas. She's really cute. Oh well. More fish in the sea yadda  yadda.

K

PM me i'll take care of this for you and you can live vicariously through me. Hell you can even give me the donation to give her. I know i'm a class act.

you're someone she kind of knows and would be more comfortable with than a total stranger.

....if so go for it...imo i'd like tho think if you do that you have no problem with being recognized so she shouldn't be spooked. Go for it.

I would advise against it. This is how a past experience went when I had set up a first time appointment with a well reviewed provider.

During the day of appointment we shoot playful emails back and forth. One in particular she took the wrong way and took it to mean I knew her IRL (never had I met this girl before). I tried to assure her that I didn't and misspoke which seemed to calm her. The following is how the last part of the day unraveled.

-She emailed me twenty minutes before the appointment time that she was stuck in traffic, would be one hour late.
-Second email, she wanted to knock the two hour appointment down to one hour (you see where this is going, don't ya).
-Lastly she emailed me that she saw someone in the lobby of my hotel that would make the experience difficult for her and that she would not be able to make the appointment. All this after she told me earlier in the day that she never once in her life had been to the hotel where I was staying.

I think it safe to say providers in general are probably uncomfortable seeing someone they know IRL. Do yourself (and her) a favor and pass.

If I recognized a hot acquitance that I wanted to bang, I would absolutely go for it. Worry about that crap later. Just re-assure her that it stays between the two of you.

That's your opinion newb12.

If your in the biz you've got to be prepared to run into someone you know at some point.  I've seen two providers on the street in Manhattan that I knew.

And I know three girls on ModelMayhem that post some of the same pictures from that site on their provider site.

Do what you feel comfortable with, but it's not a big deal if you see her.  Bottom line ... cash is king.

want to see anyone I know in anyway.. even in passing..