I was single and I had already seen the provider or the provider had stellar reviews.
Having our GFE in my own place seems far more initimate and fun then finding some hotel---but have there been any instances of legal intervention? In most of the outcall reviews I have read---the calls were in hotels---is this because the hobbiers are from out of town---or because it is just safer that way.
I'd love some opinions.
If it's a provider or agency with a good reputation you shouldn't need to worry. Especially if you've seen them previously.
Definitely only work with someone from either a reputable agency or with solid reviews. Additionally, I would stay away from ladies from craig's list unless they're reviews.
This is your home.....so a little caution is always a good thing.
There's an old movie called "How to Cheat on Your Wife" or something like that: Robert Morse teaches Walter Mattheau, with little vignettes, the rules for cheating. One of the funniest involves Terry Thomas having an affair with Jayne Mansfield (or some 60s big breast star). They have sex in his bed at home and afterward, incredibly, she can't find her bra. They search and search but can't find it. Naturally, when his wife gets home, she finds it right away.
Moral of this story: don't have providers into your home if you're married.
Other than that, I've never had any problems with any of the agencies or indies I've used, and I've occasionally had pretty sketchy chicks over.
...your SO comes home from her business trip early!
I was single and I had already seen the provider or the provider had stellar reviews.
I feel most comfortable meeting a client for the first time in a hotel. However, once I know him and we are comfortable with each other, I find that his home is where he is most relaxed... assuming there's no SO in the picture. Still, as others have mentioned, stay with agencies you know to be reliable or escorts you are already comfortable with.
On daily basis, I prefer to host incalls. The same way you feel comfortable in your own home, I also feel more at ease in my own settings.
I pick nice places as my temporary "home" and I bring everything I need to offer a safe,clean, fun and sensual session.
I only go to a guy's house if I met him first at my incall place. Going to a place that belongs to a total stranger is not a very good way to do what I do for living. What if he has cameras tapping me? What if he has some unexpected "friends" coming over to participate in the fun? What if he's violent and has intentions of hurting?
The only places I feel safe to meet a guy for outcall is in a nice upscale hotel or the casinos in Atlantic City (to where I often do outcalls on the weekend nights).
Is nothing against the client or his desire of having me coming over to his home...it might be nicer and feel better for him, but he's expecting a great performance and I only can provide that if I feel totally in control of my well being.
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