I have no interest in "dating" women in the traditional sense.  I have an interest in fucking women.  So I much prefer seeing escorts.  And, I have found, the dating part sometimes follows naturally because we've gotten the sex part out of the way first.  Then, if we actually like each other, a social relationship can start on its own, usually at her initiative.  Does this happen often?  No.  But when it does...it's great.
As a result, I've developed some real friendships, especially with my ATF whom I see socially OTC.  Just a few days ago I met a great young girl at a M&G. I'll see her for some hot sex, but after that we're going out on the town OTC; her idea.  I'd call that a date.  If we both have fun, it will continue. At this point I can't imagine why I'd do it any other way.

It is easier in some sense because everyone is here and concentrated, and you have so many places and opportunities to meet women.  You don't need to drive to go to a bar to meet women.  And there are plenty of hot women.

The downside is that many guys have a lotta game or have more resources than you, so competition is fierce.  It is hard to compete with the guy making eight figures who flies a private jet to St. Barth's in the winter.

Personally i find it easier to get laid here, but harder to develop a meaningful relationship because there is always another opportunity.

But you have to define what you want.  If you want a relationship, then it has to be about more than sex.

With so many good looking but not aptly employed men in LA, it's not my cup of tea as a girl from the South.  In NYC, any attractive, well-kept girl could have a different date every night of the week....and then some, if she's so inclined!

I can't speak on long term relationships, only one guy I have dated tried that angle with me and I wasn't interested in that at the time.  I've also only been in NYC for a year, I don't have too many girlfriends to share experiences with, that's just what I've experienced. I find east coast men more interesting, cultured, philosophically and politically inclined. It's been good for me, I suppose.

One thing I do love is that if I feel not quite so cute one day, all I have to do is put on lip gloss and some cute boots, go for a walk and feel like a sex bomb within fifteen minutes from all the flirty guys in Midtown
Thanks fellas!

Anna Faire xx

AnnaFaire I wanna move to NYC coz  seems am missing out big time. In my HV locality it is rather too slow for a guy interested in the fine things of life.