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I usually balk on work info
Johnfcondon 7 Reviews 1185 reads
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1 / 15

give her your full name even though she requires it? There are some providers that I'm REALLY interested in seeing, but I do not want to give my full name to them. Please advise. THANK YOU!

SiliconeMister 618 reads
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2 / 15

I've seen a  whole lot of very high end  girls and have never had to go through that.  Those forms are like filling out an IRS 1040  long form.  No thanks.  Never mind the fact they are highly personal on the guys' end and highly impersonal on the girls' end.

newted 46 Reviews 531 reads
posted
3 / 15

I email the girl directly and ask politely if she is available when I need her.  I tell her that if she is free I will provide screening info.  The only screening info I ever provide is TER handle and provider refs.  No phone, no name, no job.  Ever.

Vicki34F See my TER Reviews 553 reads
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4 / 15

If a gentleman wants to make a date with me and doesn"t have the solid references or white listed on TER - I personally would require verification for my own safety.  Many of the reputable girls will too.  Your call - get the references and be white listed on TER or P411 and save yourself the headache.  Not a big deal.

anon90210 52 Reviews 596 reads
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5 / 15

That may mean bypassing some providers, but for every provider with an "application", there is one who doesn't require it. They can sometimes be bypassed with solid references and or by joining one of the verification sites.

Johnfcondon 7 Reviews 490 reads
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6 / 15
crazyshit 489 reads
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7 / 15
rrasha88 See my TER Reviews 531 reads
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8 / 15

If you are unwilling to provide the required screening information, then I suggest you select someone who's verification process is more in line with the information you are comfortable sharing.  It's ironic that the technology that made the hobby so accessible is the very same technology that makes it so dangerous. It is also sad that the actions of a few flaky providers and unscrupulous clients can have such an impact on the honest and reputable ones. Neither of us should expect the other to compromise our respective comfort levels. So this may be one of those occasions where we can do nothing more than wish each other well. I hope you find someone who really knocks your socks off.

Johnfcondon 7 Reviews 505 reads
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9 / 15

Thank you for your input, Rasha! Ironically, YOU are one of the providers whose screening form I've looked at again and again.  

Posted By: rrasha88
If you are unwilling to provide the required screening information, then I suggest you select someone who's verification process is more in line with the information you are comfortable sharing.  It's ironic that the technology that made the hobby so accessible is the very same technology that makes it so dangerous. It is also sad that the actions of a few flaky providers and unscrupulous clients can have such an impact on the honest and reputable ones. Neither of us should expect the other to compromise our respective comfort levels. So this may be one of those occasions where we can do nothing more than wish each other well. I hope you find someone who really knocks your socks off.

tranquilwaters See my TER Reviews 583 reads
posted
10 / 15

want to divulge his personal information to an escort, but from an escorts point of view, she is concerned about her safety and that is the main reason she is asking for information. Verifications sites work for me as long as there are at least 3 okay's attached, of which I then check those out.

There is also whitelisting, references from legitimate providers as well. Personally, I don't care what specific information I get from a gent, but I do need something that will make me feel safe and comfortable to meet. If a gent has none of the above, then he needs to go through my assistant for a brief screening, and yes, she does require the full, real name.

For all the escorts who screen, there are many who don't. If you are that against giving out any info and have no way to show the escort you are safe to see, than just see one who doesn't screen. For the gents who agree to be screened, and then proceed to give out a fake name, etc, you are only going to annoy the escort and put her on a wild goose chase- so either agree to be screened properly, or just move on to one who will see you without asking for any info.

Stay safe everyone, enjoy the hobby!

Hugs,
Bobbi

clang22 18 Reviews 460 reads
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11 / 15
SerenaVincente See my TER Reviews 491 reads
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12 / 15

I often provide references to US guys who saw me in London and then asked me to provide them with reference so that they can step into the US game. This because I am very well known/established in EU.
But then again, you need to be a bit of a banker on the road if you know what I mean, or perhaps just able to afford a holiday in EU. You would be surprised to know how many johns do it this way in order to ensure no personal info are to be stored anywhere in the US.

Serena xxx

bakrboy 38 Reviews 375 reads
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14 / 15

Rasha is one I have wanted to meet but she wants you to fill out her form only. Not sure, but does she accept verification sites? I do not think so. If I am wrong someone correct me.

Kianna2007 See my TER Reviews 628 reads
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15 / 15

Regarding the "screening process with the forms".

Ever since the "Girlfriend Experience aka GFE" became the top request from clients it forced escorts to up grade there terms.

Why you ask? Because now the clients want a lot more from the escort. To name a few, bbbj, anal, french kissing w/tongue, fingers in every hole, rimming....lol...the list is endless.

So naturally if I'm going to offer those services I want to know more then a first name and what time you want to see me. And the minute a caller says "I'm a really nice guy or this is my first time", no way am I seeing you.

Times have changed and you can evolve with the times or play dangerous unsafe games with your health and those at home.

Be well and stay safe,
Goddess Utopia

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