I tend to shun providers with gift lists. It's narcissistic & egotistical.

It speaks volumes about who the provider really is.   If the list has extravagant items listed on it you can bet her service is mechanical  and you're  nothing but an ATM to her.

I find the it helpful if the lady mentions the type of things she enjoys receiving. I  disregard the appeals for diamonds...condo's BMWs etc.... pretty sure those items are included as humor & sarcasm , not expectations. Good to know if a lady likes a certain wine...her sizes...One thing for sure , it has never been my experience that a lady who included gift ideas in her ad or site has turned out to be high maintenence. In fact, mostly just the opposite. ...appreciative and sweet.

perhaps providers get lots of questions about what kind of gifts to bring.  so just being open about some specifics.  think some are even registered at amazon etc.  trips to europe...guess only for the rich and famous.  or are you thinking about a trip to greece, which i would stay away from with all the economic unrest.

I understand it within the context of advertisements and websites of dominants/mistresses and women who cater to financial based fetishes.

But I would agree that making an extravagant wishlist a primary focus in an advertisement in the GFE realm is a little presumptuous.

I have a wishlist, only because I am frequently asked what I like and it serves as a reference point for clients who like to gift.
But its not a primary page and only the client who is going over my website with a fine tooth comb for clues about what time spent with me would be like is likely to even notice it.  I try to keep it light and basic- I can afford high ticket items, I don't have to beg or "suggest" them.

Different strokes for different folks; some clients really buy into spoiling the women they enjoy or attempting to impress new paramours with lavish presents.  I get it.
But I can't help but admit that I laugh a little when I read wishlists or ads that suggest that a client purchase Cartier or a BMW for an hourly hostess.
You never know if you don't ask though I guess lol.

On my wish list because I like to cuddle and have trouble sleeping.    I had seen other sites with wish lists, and, like Ally Moore, had many ask what I like so thought I would put that up.   Nevertheless, I took it down after reading too many posts like these.  
   

I never listed or asked for tips or gifts, however ------

Is sooooooo cool and fabulous when a client 'remembers' what I like and surprises me with a gift.

I don't need expensive stuff (why a BMW? I drive a Benz lol), I can buy the expensive things on my own.

The other day, one of my favorite clients brought me a box full of zucchinis (yes, the vegetable).

At one of our previous engagements, during a break pillow talk, I mentioned how hard was for me to find my favorite veggie and, when I found it, how expensive it was because is off season.

He has a garden, with a big greenhouse, so he planted and grew the zucchinis for me (he dislike them, lol).

I was genuinely surprised and dancing around my place holding couple zucchinis in my hand, like they were made of gold.

Simple gifts, coming from the heart, are way more precious than diamonds.

I'm not gonna buy anyone a BMW - I drive a '96 Explorer. But I like to know what wine a lady likes, or if she's an avid reader or listener of music. I suppose these questions could be answered in pre-rendezvous communications, but it's more of a surprise if the guy shows up with the right item instead of asking. It also shows that the guy was paying attention when he viewed the lady's website. Ladies do like guys who pay attention...right?

When a girl list gifts on her site, it doesn't mean that she's saying bring her a gift or requesting it.

Theres high end and/or well-reviewed escorts who's appointment, if they decided to, do buy her gifts of things she likes (i.e. why they are listed on MOST girls websites)

They're not requesting tho, i think its more or less put out there for you to make the choice if you would like to as the hobbyist... some hobbyist are into that kind of thing, i mean you might want a girlfriend experience so she might want the boyfriend experience (joke) lol.

Gifting and tipping providers?  These women are not your girlfriends.

Tipping has gotten out of control in the US in the past few years.

couldn't agree with u more, brother...

a TOTALLY obnoxious practice!  it would be like going to a restaurant and the waiter telling you that he/she likes a certain type of perfume!  PUH-LEEZE!

a gift should be just that, A GIFT!  something you choose to give to a provider you've previously had a positive relationship with, not some INCENTIVE for them to do their jobs!  I just avoid those types!

Some guys ask us

I think most of the time the gift's list that some girls have is only a time saving for some of the clients because sometimes guys call asking us if we would like something, that's all. I don't have any list

I don't see what the big deal is...

especially if the list is unique, interesting, and gives us a window into the dear lady's personality.

There are hobbyists out there that feel that bringing a gift is part of the GFE experience, and the ladies are just making suggestions.  If you are seeing a lady on an ongoing basis, a gentleman will gift her for her birthday, and for the holidays.  The suggestions on her website is also aimed at them, and it certainly doesn't hurt to know what she is thinking.

If this bothers you, I would suggest you move on, and find others that make you feel comfortable...

My gifts page is small! Bring A Bottle Of GreyGoose! lol

Everything materialistic I have & prefer not to buy myself if a friend wants to know what I like refer to my website!  


I am flattered at any gift I receive to be honest flowers are usually not what I am happy to get because they die pretty quickly when your traveling!