I personally find that providers who make a big show on getting turned on are actually a turn off.  Unless the girl is a consummate artiste all the dirty talk, moaning and groaning is not fooling me.
I’d rather a shy inexperienced innocent act then an aggressive one.
Does anyone agree?

I feel as if there insulting my intelligence. Hey, if there into it just for the donation, that's fine with me, just show some interest (I haven't met a provider that didn't). I don't expect or want to be with an actress. Just give me what I came for, if it's real for the provider, well hey, that's a plus.
But please please please don't fake it. Think about how the guy must feel after he's been with someone who had to fake it......Not to good for the ego

Just my 2cents

I mean, does anyone REALLY think these girls are cumming the way some guys write about?  It's rare to find a girl really cums (exhibiting all the physiological signs).  Yet, there are a very few girls who can do nothing BUT cum.  Lara Nicols a couple years back was one.  I think girls getting genuinely turned on is more the exception than the rule.

I also find it a turn-off, but perhaps for different reasons.  As far as I am concerned, this hobby is for my pleasure, not the provider's.   I want her concentrating on making me happy, not in satisfying herself.   For a long-time favorite, I might try to do something if I feel like it.

I have a wife who is entitled to sexual satisfaction.   No one else.

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I don't think any of us likes a faker. In truth, I never met two women who orgasmed the same, or faked the same, or something in between. Some will be honest and say they either had a mild O or just got very excited or admit they rarely O with clients. But no one ever admitted to faking and I have found it a sensitive subject to raise even with providers I have seen often. Several threads in past discussed the topic of how to tell if she has a real O but the great debate to me was left unresolved. Only time I was sure was with provider for 2 days. She was a orgasm machine and this was confirmed by at least 10 other reviews saying the same thing. Heck, who could stay in "role" that long. In any case, fake noises are a real put off.

Orgasms notwithstanding, a lady can enjoy herself whether she has one (or many, preferably) or not... so how can you tell when noises are faked, exactly? I have to say I've seen lots of ladies be fake, be real, and everything in between, and unless I know because they've told me... *I* cannot usually tell... and *I* am a lady too!  And why do you guys insist that a lady has to cum to have any fun??? That's silly... we're not built like you are and it doesn't always work that way.  

Hugs*
Tamara

You can tell. We have all seen When Harry Met Sally...lol!

Honestly, I like a girl that gets into the session. She's moaning and talking dirty to me - I love that. Remember it's all a fantasy, so I take it at face value and I enjoy it.

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as a provider, I'm there to satisfy your needs. Every guy is different and so is what he wants at that moment. If he wants to lay back and enjoy either an earth shaking bj, an extensive foreplay or just act like a f*ck lion, it's HIS choice and I'm there to provide it. Not every guy wants or expect me to have an orgasm, so I never moan, scream or fake, because most men are NOT dumb, specially if they're paying for your performance. This doesn't mean I don't enjoy what I do, because I would not be a provider if I didn't love sex. I can enjoy sex and foreplay without orgasming and it doesn't make the session any less than one where I'm having my pleasure. I don't lie to my clients, I cannot have one orgasm after the other, I need time to recoup like you guys. I do cum, but not with every person I see, I cum when I feel that my pleasure is important for him. I have my favorite guys of course, the ones where the session is orgasmic for both and, believe me, they do KNOW when I cum

What if she is truely enjoying it, and the moaning and groaning in the real thing?  I can truely say I have found myself in the postion where first impressions and physical appearance my date  does nothing for me but once we start to interact with one another he seemed to have walked in the door with both a key and a manual on how to press, touch and lick all the right buttons~
most guys assume the provider is faking it but that is half the pleasure because then it becomes my own dirty little secret.

Bud-  No ego here dude.

I agree with EB.  It's all in good fun!! Enjoy it all.

...when the lady's moans are way, way out of proportion to how I'm touching her, or what I'm doing to her at the moment.  I do understand your point about how ladies can enjoy doing it with a client without having to orgasm or even be turned on. I can appreciate that completely.

...you will never know she is faking it. if you are complaining about some lousy acting...you hired an escort, not julia roberts! if you are in doubt... just assume she is faking it. sail.