Ladie or gentleman for a session for the very first time? Nervous, anxious, a little scared, exhilarated? Be honest, use an alias if you want. I'm genuinely curious. For myself I must admit I get butterflies and a bit of anxiety. 99% of the time it's great and I often end up seeing clients again and again. But because of this fact I get so comfortable with my regular friends. We truly become very close friends. Don't get me wrong I like meeting new people but I do get a tiny bit nervous beforehand. How about you?

I haven't had butterflies in years in this hobby except when a provider stuck something up my ass, and I'm NOT sure those  were butterflies!    LOL

Especially when entering the hotel and going to her room.
Usually within the first 30 seconds after meeting a lady she helps me overcome my "fears".
Even if I am meeting someone for the first time that I have PM or emailed back and forth I am still a little nervous, but also very excited because we are not really total strangers.

It's part of what makes this hobby great....

Since I don't hobby nearly as much as many others do, it's always a special occasion. It's really a special event for me. There's a whole range of emotions I go thru before I get together with a gal... But most of all I find that I'm on fast forward, busy trying to make sure all the details are in order... Days before, I change up my diet. making sure I'm eating extra healthy, because I want to be in top performance and food plays a major role in that. Making sure my all over manscaping looks good, fingernails are clipped, taking care of my overall hygiene, thinking about what I'll say and what we'll do. It's part of the whole process and the excitement that makes it a very cool experience.

If I've seen a gal several times before, the excitement doesn't go away. At that point, I'm just able to channel it into the right energy that heightens the enjoyment of our time together - maximizing for a great time.

So in short, the whole before, during and after are a complete range of exciting emotions that I really enjoy.

nycad

... but not for long!

Actually!

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My gentlemen seems never nervous  .. because they do set   dates with me being  very involved themselves - as tell me where to come  wher to take hotel ..or  reserving  dinner , or show tickets and when we meet we meet as lovers ..  kissing publicly  in the bar or restaurant .. when I come and he waits for me  outside of hotel  we kiss as we know each other forever ..
I think  people  nervous here because afraid .. why have dates when we afraid of each other ? woman afraid open door because she does not have idea who will be there .. or LE or  Criminal ... or  stinky man so not possible to kiss at all ..

If we  organize all as date  then worry be pleasant as .. ah .. now I be loved .. ah .. now he will lick my feet and all of me .. I sooo love him for that ..:: and give him all mu best ..  not a worry but excitement !!
Nervous, anxious, a little scared ??? Scarred !!! people .. you.. gentlemen donate big money ./ you do not want you woman be scarred unless you order  such foreplay ..

not explained the reasons for being  nervous .. I  made an assumption that men may worry too about legality  .. and..  as one said  sneaking  to lady  as  if  he does  taboo .. is taboo is excitement itself for many ?
is pleasure be extracted if it be  all legal and open?

I do  meet ONLY those who feel very stable and in charge .Iam just a woman  .. and I love  assertive  man who knows what he does it is sexy ..

Many men in this hobby can't even talk to women they have so many hang ups.

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Getting apprehensive/nervous about committing an illegal act, cheating on an SO, and gambling a fair amount of cash, on a total stranger who's only credibility comes from the recommendations of other total strangers on anonymous websites like this, seems fairly reasonable and has little to do with ones prowess around women. As stated in another post, this is also part of the excitement we crave.
Just responding honestly to the OP's inquiry.

- who does not take risks- those do not drink Champagne .. but.. you know.. I love united states approach
risk assessment and  Risk management  :) so then champagne  taste sweeter

LovetoDaty there is always the feelings about the unknown mixed with what you know from the communication you had before...

First time sex with s lady for the first time is always like that...and if you connect with her in any way on an emotional and/or intellectual level, things have a way of continuing...