Hi my name is Amber.I'm an independent provider available to travel to your location...I'm 28yrs.old 5'5 117lbs 34b-22-34..I have brown hair,blue eyes.I'm also bi-racial(german-black).So if your a SWM or MWM between the ages of 30-older ISO a discreet encounter then e-mail me for more [email protected]

So I guess my money is no good in Northeast PA...

Bi Racial no less....would this be an example of self hatred, or just execution of personal choice?

I remain perplexed...and without a clear idea of how to proceed...

I'm a professional. I'm a little older. I'm in fairly good shape. Quite a few ladies have commended me on my gentlemanly charm. I just can't understand why the fact that I am an African-American (you specify SWM or MWM) should preclude me from your services. Wouldn't you make an "exception in my case?

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Don't be dicouraged! Ich Liebe Dich! (My grandfather happens to be a Black man from Dusseldorf.) Tonight is my last night in town, and if you'd like to join me before I bid New York farewell... I'm still waiting!

xoxo, Sinn

For your information I am not prejudice...I have no problem with seeing African-American men...As a matter of fact I have a regular who is black...It's just a preference of mine to see white men...Besides the fact that in the 5 and 1/2 yrs that I've been in this business I have yet to know an African-American male whose willing to pay my fees....So if your acceptable of what my fees are then I see no problem with booking a meeting with you....




Amber

"For your information I am not prejudice...It's just a preference of mine to see white men..."

Per "www.dictionary.com" Prejudice = prej·u·dice (prj-ds) is
"A preconceived preference or idea." What you express above would seem to be in fact the very definition of prejudice. It is your right, mine you, just as it is my right to not share the company of persons, who have "An adverse judgment or opinion formed beforehand or without knowledge or examination of the facts" (another definition per www.dictionary.com), but recognize it for what it is.

"I have a regular who is black......Besides the fact that in the 5 and 1/2 yrs that I've been in this business I have yet to know an African-American male whose willing to pay my fees"

This would seem to be a contradiction, unless I missed something. What point, assuming you intended one, should we take away from this?

"So if your acceptable of what my fees are then I see no problem with booking a meeting with you...."

Well, I am glad that you would have "no problem", but as I expressed in my post below, my true concern isn't being turned away by providers who for whatever reason rather not see African American men, but instead encountering one who accepts my offering of gratuity while keeping her "preferences" secret...and thus possibly diminishing the experience for me.

Since you have been very clear about your preferences (both here and on your web page), I feel whether or not I find you your fee acceptable to be irrelevant (BTW...your overnight fee for travel would be about a half week salary for me...and about half of my expenses for my apartment and automobile parking each month...perhaps in your 5 1/2 years you have been looking in the wrong places). I am looking for a provider who will be of a mindset that allows her to enjoy my companionship...and thus free to express her pleasure, happiness and contentment in a unique manner. I am not looking for just sex...I have someone in my life for that, along with friendship and the other facets of an adult relationship. I am looking for special "intimacies", romantic, physical, and psychological in nature. An experience. One that I will assume (though I admit this might not be the case) your "preferences" would prevent you from supplying. With this being the case, I am afraid I must decline your "gracious" invitation.

By the way...I find it curious that you describe yourself as "exotic", and point out your bi racial background in a manner that suggests it is a "marketing" advantage, yet your "preferences" exclude those who possess this same uniqueness. To each their own I suppose...but it does suggest (to me anyway) self hatred....

I know what prejudice means....Why would I be prejudice if my father was black...HELLO So how am I contradicting myself????

Listen you for some apparent reason have a problem with the fact that I choose to see white men...I don't have any problems because I make my money....


Then you have the nerve to make the statement about how my fee for overnight is half a week salary for u...Well noone said that u had to get an overnight stay....And I haven't been looking in the wrong places because noone else complains about what I charge...


And as far as you statment:
By the way...I find it curious that you describe yourself as "exotic", and point out your bi racial background in a manner that suggests it is a "marketing" advantage, yet your "preferences" exclude those who possess this same uniqueness. To each their own I suppose...but it does suggest (to me anyway) self hatred....


what does the fact that I descibe myself as being exotic and my mixed race have to do with your statement???I do not have any self hatred for myself or anybody but apparently YOU DO!!!!

SO get over it and move on...

KISSES FROM ME


Amber

"Listen you for some apparent reason have a problem with the fact that I choose to see white men"

No...I don't have a problem at all...but I was curious why you had a "preference"...but it doesn't matter, for as you say, you make your money.

"what does the fact that I describe myself as being exotic and my mixed race have to do with your statement???"

That you would be proud of your heritage (you seem to be anyway...you make mention of it), but "prefer" (again your words) the company of men who do not have that same heritage...

"And I haven't been looking in the wrong places because no one else complains about what I charge..."

You mentioned that you had not (in your 5 1/2 years of experience) found an African American who was willing to pay your fees. The point I was attempting to make (apparently I failed) was that I could easily afford your fees...and by implication would be willing to pay them if indeed I thought they would translate into the "experience" I was looking for. I am African American, so, tongue-in-cheek, I suggested that perhaps you had been looking in the wrong places to find African American men willing to pay your fees.

It occurs to my now that perhaps you had problems finding such men because they somehow (overtly, via your webpage, or covertly, through your actions or behavior) sensed your "preference" for SWM & MWM, and they, as I, saw to reason to spend money with someone who they knew would not care for there companionship. Admittedly however, this is speculation on my part...

"Why would I be prejudice if my father was black"

This is the definition of "self - hatred". The fact that your father was black does NOT by definition mean you don't have "prejudice" against black men (indeed, I could speculate how for many reason it could indeed LEAD to suggest prejudice). The fact that you prefer the company of others strongly suggests that you in fact do harbor some prejudice, but that is at best an anecdotal relationship. Who (besides you) knows what your reasons are? I had hoped that you would explain them, but perhaps you choose not to...or perhaps you can't.

"I do not have any self hatred for myself or anybody but apparently YOU DO!!!!"

No...I don't. Certainly not self hatred, nor hatred towards anyone else. I am however disturbed that a woman would "prefer" to not be with someone who shared the same heritage and history as herself...would prefer to not be with someone whose skin and hair was like her father's...but, this is a large and diverse world we live in, and it is populated with all types of people, with all types of stories...