Plus that, it is a smear on their pride and image.  I read your review history...if you provide your handle to the ladies' as part of screening, your review history will work against you, especially if you wish to see ladies' with mostly or all high score reviews.  Best thing you can do is decline to provide your handle...all those 5/5's look bad from the ladies' perspective.

The low scores were all deserved and it was my duty to warn fellow hobbyists from wasting their hard-earned money, and more importantly from that yucky "why did I waste my time" feeling

 --  Well said...


I had an experience a few years ago with a lady who received mainly 9's on looks, with a few 8's, few 10's.   I don't know what these guys were smoking but she had flabby legs, flabby ass, and in no way shape or form was a 9 in my books.  So to not hurt her feelings too bad I gave her a 7 (attractive) with an 8 on performance because she DID "go the extra mile"

However I was a little more descriptive in my review than she would have like to hear, so she sends me like a dozen NASTY e-mails within an hour time period.  Not to mention from 3am - 4am when she obsviously was out drinking.    Then after I complained to the agency she sends me an apologetic e-mail asking me to submit a new review minus the flab comments, which I did NOT do.

What I should have done was submit a new review and add to it the fact that her Y smelled like a fish market just before closing


So, unfortunately there are shills out there who do exactly the opposite, and post raving reviews for ladies that most of us wouldn't want to waste our hard-earned money on, or our valuable time

Again, this site was set up so that hobbyists could protect themselves from the many scams, bait and switch, and downright not so great or dissapointing encounters with providers who either misrepresent themselves or who just aren't any good at their trade, and other hobbyists are 100% entitled to know the facts before diving in...

What CD said re bad reviews affecting a girl's business is true.  Still, I agree that if you had a bad session a poor review is justified.  The problem is, in some cases, guys who give low scores have issues that affected the quality of the session, such as poor hygeine (I am not suggesting that's the case  with you), or just a weird personality.  And wayodd's point about $200 providers is valid, too.  Perhaps it's time to re-evaluate your approach?  I see gals in the $300-$400 range, and sometimes above, and almost all my experiences have been great ones.

1. If you don’t want repercussions from your reviews, write reviews under a totally anonymous handle that you don’t share with anyone.
2. The point system is a useless measure and has been for years. Debating it has become a complete waste of time.
3. Look to the reviews for a description of the provider’s general attitude, services offered, how she typically runs her sessions and if she offers the types of services you’re looking for. And realize that this is a subjective account that’s no doubt enhanced to boost the ego of the reviewer.
4. Trust only reviewers with reliable track records.
5. Shill reviews are rampant. Take this fact for granted. A provider with a handful of reviews from unknown reviewers? You might as well be taking one for the team if you book with her.
6. Search the discussion board before booking a provider to see whether there’s some back story or drama you should be aware of.
7. Good service can be had at almost any price point. However, if you play in the mid market and high end, and follow reviewers with good reputations, you’re more likely to have better sessions more of the time (like it or not, this improves your odds).
8. If the provider screened you prior to the session and knows your true identity, and then you post a critical review revealing details of the session that will clearly identify you personally, you’re definitely playing with fire. Your reviews don’t have to be generic—just be careful to protect your identity. Or else, suffer the consequences, because it will be your own fault.
9. Believe it or not, there are other review boards. Cross reference.
10. Google the provider’s phone number and, in a separate search, her name. See if there’s anything you should know about her that might not be posted on TER.

Happy hobbying!

I pay for my TER subscription.  That means that I can do with it whatever I want, within the terms of use.  I don't need some other reviewer telling me how I should review a girl.  And if I feel a girl is great, and my session was great, then that's my business.  Unless the other hobbyists here plan on giving renumeration when I have a bad session, my answer, quite frankly, is that I don't owe anyone else a fucking thing.

Now...is there grade inflation?  Sure.  Do some guys shill and provide good reviews for otherwise shitty service or ugly providers?  Sure.  But to go as far to say that we are "obligated" to give a shitty review when we've had bad service?  Who the fuck are you to say so?  I'm not trying to be a dick here, but I don't know how much more clearly to say that.

Here's what you can do if you want some more info:  Check out the reviewers' other reviews.  PM people that you know and trust.  Ask around.  You can find the info if you want.

As far as providers sending insulting emails...that's not right, either.  I have no defense for that or would even agree to that being even remotely correct.  I can understand why they feel this is bad for them, so whenever I have a less-than-satisfactory session, I always just email the girl after if she is pressuring me for a review.  I tell her what I will write in a review.  If she's not happy, then it goes nowhere, and she gets feedback.

I just have an issue with your idea (or anyone's idea, for that matter) that other hobbyists have an obligation to point out the bad ones.  We don't.  Sorry.  Unless you wanna pay for me taking one for the team, I don't owe you or anyone else shit.