Are the reviews "up to snuff"???
I was told if I came out from under the radar and joined this board and the ter board I would have tons of email dates. This has not be my experience. Hobbyists would you care to enlighten me why a PSE like me would not be busy. I offer rates far less than many pse's. Any input would be greatly appreciated.
Hi Jennifer,
As someone who is very active in the hobby, I can give you my personal opinion of why you might not be as busy as expected. Please understand that these are observations and are in no way meant to be criticisms.
First of all, for me, and I believe a LOT of hobbyists, I never book a girl without seeing her face. I understand completely the provider's desire for discretion and privacy, and it's certainly her choice not to show her face, but I for one just will not book a girl who's face I haven't seen.
Also, you're rate structure is a little confusing. Exactly what is an "introductory rate"? Are you saying that the first meeting will be less expensive than a second or third get-together? I doubt that's what you mean, but if what you are trying to say is that you're rates will be going up in the near future, just say that and don't include both introductory rates and your future regular rates. It's confusing and not really necessary.
Also, as someone who has seen many local/traveling providers as well as over 30 pornstars, I can tell you that there are a LOT of VERY well known, established (not amateur) pornstars who's rates are the same or only slightly higher than your (Platinum-PSE) rates are. At $900 or even $700, most guys willing to pay that kind of money are going to chose an established PSE who's movies (and face) they've seen. Guys who see PSEs are willing to pay the higher rates because they've fantasized about being the guy nailing the girl in the video. In fact most will admit that that's the SOLE reason they're willing to pay two, three or up to five times the rate of a non-pse.
I think you may be targeting the wrong client base or sending a confusing message on your website. If you're looking to see the average hobbyist, I'd simply bill myself as a GFE and offer the one (silver) rate structure.
If you're looking to market yourself to the upscale hobbyist, I'd advise that you post on the TER pornstar board instead of *or in addition to) the NYC board and list the titles of all of the movies you've done.
Again, please take this as an objective observation and suggestions. I'm certainly not trying to tell you how to run your business.
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well said. i would also add that your cancellation policy would turn alot of potential clients off. To have to pay 75% of the session fee just to be able to rebook another session is pretty outrageous.
I only advertise on EROS with sexy shots and blurred face pics. I value my privacy and there is no way I'm exposing it for all my friends and family to see. Post your face all over! We have a right to protect our identity.
My phone rings off the hook and I'm always booked. I don't have reviews or a visible face photo but that has not hurt me. Clients love my pics and like what they see in person so I have not had any problems.
I think the reason she isn't getting a big response is her fee. I charge 400 & I think most men will book when the fee isn't too high.
eddie hits it on the head......he is correct in saying the rate structure is confusing..loose the "introductery rate"..post a gfe rate and a pse rate and offer a ter special rate on the board or web site..my 2 cents if your looking for bus here..i'm in ct and cannot remember seeing any reviews in the 203 exchange..did i miss them???..i'm sure in time with a few reviews you will be busy..rabbit
Fast Eddie and Rabbit.
I am seeing a visiting lady tomorrow. Her website has dozens of pictures showing her face, as well as her body fully unclad. No way I would have booked her otherwise.
Also, there is no ambiguity about her price structure. She posts a complete list of her resume, including her video's and the publications she has appeared in. Her reviews are stellar. She's not a well know porn star, but she has lots of credibility.
If you follow her lead, you will have all the business you can handle.
I hope this helps. Good luck to you.
By first saying your photos look great and I am sure you are beautiful in person, but I would suggest in IMHO that you should alter your rate structure by having two levels and also realize that very few command that level of support and have more appointments then they can book. Good luck!
As someone who doesn't post very much, I applaud you guys efforts. Based on her pics, she is very hot (at least I think so) and I love her build. She seems to be VERY new to this kind of situation and you guys coaching her in business strategy is exactly what she needs to survive and be successful. That's what this board is for...good luck Jennifer and let us know when you are in NYC.
Perfecto
Change the way you sell yourself on your website.
As much we all want to "cater to only discreet upscale affluent gentlemen" the reality is we don't have them all the time.
The way you mention your preferences turns off (big time) any other guy who does have the cash to pay you -- but, do not consider himself in the class of men you "only" want to see.
When you set your standards in a high level like this, the guys who are not affluent & upscale (but with money to burn) will feel that you will discriminate when they walk thru the door, resulting in a bad session.
Also, your price structure is very confusing -- guys prefer girls who offers one basic rate for their services, including the GFE/PSE in the package.
I think the difference between GFE & PSE sessions do not exist. It all depends in HOW the chemistry goes and WHAT happens when you hit off with a guy. You might start with sweet kissing & groping to warm up and then end on your knees having your ass pounded before a facial. Is all relative.
You can put a premium on greek (if you offer) and also in all of your fetish services. That's what the majority of girls offer for their clients.
Make your site simple, sweet, down to Earth and, most important, with affordable rates (do a research and see how much the other girls are asking -- try to be in the same range).
On the PSE rates issue -- I think you can ask that kind of rates if you really are or was a porn star, with movies under your belt.
If you never did any movies, then you cannot ask for the same rates, even if you think your services are exactly like what guys see on the screen.
Change your site contents and you will do well.
Good Luck!
BDG
Don't normally comment on rates, etc., but since you asked...
To echo others, the rate structure is confusing. I never see providers with different GFE/PSE rate structures. I'm a GFE man and feel I'd get short changed since I'm not paying the PSE rate. Also, there's a big difference between a porn star and a PSE (porn star experience). The later refers to the experience, not the lady's status.
I only pay a premium rate for a real, hot-as-hell porn star, not for girls who have appeared in a few gonzo videos.
Finally, you platinum session sounds more like a BDSM session, which usually are less than a regular session. Granted, you it sounds like you would allow things the typical mistress would not.
all my colleagues above. Not much to add that hasn't already been said!
Good luck to you!
Ok. That might have been a bit of an exaggeration.
In reality they do all have a point. Confusing price structures can be an issue. And many of us like a pretty face and want to see one before we book.
However, neither of those is the reason you haven't heard from the TER community.
Plenty of girls have gotten business with smaller offenses.
You were told that if you came out from under the radar, we would respond. However, this board is more a community than an Advertising space. Saying "I am here" isn't enough.
You need to participate in the chats. Post some comments. Guys who participate in chat boards like this are interested in more than bodies. We want personalities. So as you post and we get to know you, your phone will ring more.
But a face shot wouldn't hurt. 
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You sound arrogant and lame on your website...a "bored corporate chic" And $$$$$$ is way too much for your looks. Start at 350 and see what happens
Plus I can't afford to eat there!
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Are the reviews "up to snuff"???
...There! Wasn't that easy?
The bottom line is you are OVERPRICED for how you look!
It is a buyers market out there! And based on your pictures and aloof attitude, I wouldn't call you if you were half the price you're asking!
Reguardless of what you "think" you're worth, you need to spend some time on the escort malls and ad sites looking at what's available in your marketplace and at what price-point...
Also, search out and read all the reviews of women that spec-out simular to you, and get a REAL perspective on what your competition looks and performs like... THEN adjust your price and menu structure...
Secondly, your website REEKS of attitude and high maintainance!
It's safe to assume that the complicated arrogance you express in your writing style, ie; your implied "hold you accountable" policies, COMBINED WITH the "I'm doing you a favor by even being in the business" under-tone, ARE AN ACCURATE REPRESENTATION OF YOUR TRUE PERSONALITY! YUCK! Men are looking for an ESCAPE from female complications when they choose to hobby! That's what the MONEY is susposed to cover and release us from having to deal with!
IMHO, You will either need to be satisfied with the slow pace of your current business as you niche-market to a narrow segment of men, or completely RAZE you entire market presence and start over from scratch with broader based appeal!
(What good is it to ask for help when everyone you ask is too NICE to tell you the TRUTH?)
You pictures make me moan from desire. I don't know what is with the NYC hobbyists, but I know that you will be kept busy in Boston.
At the ladies price point combined with her rater superior attitude I don't think she would be overly busy anywhere... Which is fine if she wants to be a low volume provider...but then don't bitch about the lack of appointments.
Just my 27 cents,I mean no harm...Your website states you only want to see a select class of gentlemen,it's comes off as a bit cocky and ruins the fantasy of him arriving and feeling like you want to please him,as oppose to you're doing him a favor.
While I'm sure You believe you are the best in your field,your first goal is to get them to call you,and your approach is just not designed for the average gentlemen.
I think I am a total GFE package,sometimes I'm romantic(when chem. is there)sometimes i'm wild and down-right dirty,however i can't advertise PSE because i have no movies,internet or mags under my belt.So try to say you can be all of the above without making anyone feel you're above them.
As for rates.. yours are High,I think you're Beautiful & gorgeous,but I also believe in today's market our industry is a luxury.So you have your good weeks and bad.I hope you are able to continue in this buisiness and have great success.But if you want to build a Steady clientele base,you have to (1. show your face,2. do alot of research and see what similar woman with your body type and skill level are getting. And most important always check what the market is like in your area of choice..Only 7% of eastcoast residents are millionaires.
Best of luck Sweety... Joey D.
You're probably tired of the response and advice, but there is one important point which does need to be emphasized. At this point, there seem to be no TER reviews of you (or, at least I cannot find them by searching your name, your area code, or your e-mail). In the absence of validation from other hobbyists, we fear that we may be taking one for the team. If you have been reviewed, please provide a link on your web site to the reviews. And, please do ask others to contribute after sessions with you. It shouldn't take long - good word of mouth travels fast.
.. I'd be surprised if anyone has called you. One suggestion: if you reviews ANYWHERE, link them to your site. Girl, this is a business and you're going about it all wrong.