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is outing a bbfs provider being a bad sport or a public service advocate (eom)
crazyshit 702 reads
posted
2 / 16


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crazyshit 810 reads
posted
3 / 16

I don't believe in PSAs here.  Are you kidding me?  Maybe between a few guys who I exchange emails and info with, but as far as posting that shit here for all to see?  You're crazy.  I don't need freeloaders getting information on my dime.

BBFS has to be looked at in context.  Maybe a provider really only is doing it with a few guys or just you (not likely, of course, but it could be the case).

In the end, no one likes a tattletale.

And you don't want to be spreading rumors, either...that's really wrong.

kendalllynn See my TER Reviews 753 reads
posted
4 / 16

To be honest I feel that it depends on who is reading or hearing it .For some it is a huge waving red flag to stay away . While for others it is exactly what they are looking for . I hear we now have reviews that allow the reviewer to mention if they had gotten or been offered bbfs .
Personally i am not avaiable for BB but i do get asked regularly .A large number of people are interseted no matter how scary that maybe to you and I . Happy new Year ,Kendall Lynn

cloast 29 Reviews 599 reads
posted
5 / 16

It would be a bad sport of you to out a provider offering BBFS. If she does offer BBFS, just decline and that's the end of it. This hobby is full of options and choices: options are presented and you choose.

Zing!!! 614 reads
posted
6 / 16

In this day and age fully knowing what the risks are it's fucking foolish to engage in such risky behavior. Who the fuck would want to be involved with someone like that unawares? It's reprehensible to allow such to occur.

crazyshit 617 reads
posted
7 / 16

Really?

You gotta be kidding me.  Whatever I am offered by a girl is between me and the girl.

Newsflash:  Nearly every girl does BBFS with someone.  Maybe it's not a client and maybe it's not for money, but if she's doing BBFS, then you are at risk in some way.

So protect yourself.  This is an illegal activity last time I checked.  And there are no guarantees in life.  Learn how to be a big boy and swim, or stay out of the deep end of the pool.

No one owes anyone anything in terms of information.  Consider it a favor and say thank you if you get information.  Don't bitch about not getting it.

accidentalhobbiest 466 reads
posted
8 / 16

Some are looking for it and some will run the other way but let people decide.

As to everyone is doing some BB with someone, that's true. However, many gals have 10 plus pages of reviews and I'm sure not every session generates a review. You do the math. I bet your average provider in the biz for a year will equal many years of a civie who gets around.

No one owes anyone here anything but if everyone had the attitude of not posting useful info, may as well just browse BP, Eros, etc.

HoneyDooDoo 516 reads
posted
9 / 16

Ladies that offer themselves as lovers do not deserve a public stoning. Guys that partake of a lady's love naturally are not criminals. Everyone fucks SOMEBODY bareback.   Cum happens - get over it.

crazyshit 502 reads
posted
10 / 16

Information was obtained because someone put resources at risk to see a girl and reported back.  That is worth something, and that doesn't come for free.

What's worse is when jackasses on this board actually have the balls and audacity to complain about people writing reviews in a certain way (e.g. bragging that they made her come three times).

Don't look at a gift horse in the mouth.

The best information has and will continue to be via the backchannel methods of PM and email with other guys who you trust.  A guy who I know reached out to me and gave me the name and number of a girl he met on Craigslist.  That kinda information is something that is earned over time.  It should never be expected.

Zing!!! 355 reads
posted
11 / 16
kylalavi See my TER Reviews 362 reads
posted
12 / 16
cloast 29 Reviews 404 reads
posted
14 / 16

By outing a bbfs provider you'd only increase her business as there are many in the hobby who'd "jump" on this gal, increasing her chances of catching something nasty and thus increasing her chances of passing it on to others, and then into the civilian population. Seems to be a moot point as we are now allowed to include bbfs in our reviews. This is a good post, gets us all thinking.

As Nancy Reagan used to say: "Just say no."

Waterclone 78 Reviews 394 reads
posted
16 / 16

Obviously, if the girl advertises it as a service, then you can mention it in the review.  If it's something that she tells you she doesn't do with everyone, then it shouldn't go in the review.  

Before people start saying "Don't believe her if she tells you that you are the only one..." that's not my point.  Many girls offer services on a YMMV basis.  Some guys get it, some guys don't.  Often that's the case with Greek, sometimes BBBJ and even DFK.  

My point is, if it's definitely something avail to everyone, then it's prob ok to add to the review.  It's it's something that she says she only does with the people that she want's to do it with, then it should not be in the review.

If you are comfortable telling the girl you are going to review the date, you can ask her, "is there anything we did that you prefer people not know about?"

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