For the fellas please do your homework before choosing a provider. Make sure this person has credibility and for the providers please please please do your research and trust your instinct. To many of these guys don't want to provide info and is using the "I'm a really nice guy card" (red flag). I think everyone have the right to have fun but also be safe and respected. I bet 99% of all the arrests in LI did not do there research and I feel really bad for then (some may not no any better )

Research research research. Don't get greedy

Xoxoxoxo
Mya

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Goood... Bad bad bad

I had someone give me
1) p411
2) date check
3) recently seen provider name and contact info

Guess what?

P411 came back as no such user
Date check.. Same thing
Provider? He wasn't on her screened list...

Seriously ladies, don't just take what the gent says as it's valid, check it!

And gents, be careful! I know part of the fun in this is the chase, but always weigh the + with the -.

Have fun & stay safe!!


-- Modified on 6/3/2013 8:30:19 PM

What do you do if the man doesnt have a reference but has work info to provide?

Yikes!

 I always feel iffy  when someone  emails  me telling me they found me on TER  and I  can't look up their email.

 Stay safe.

Same thing happened to me as well ,he filled out my resv  form ,gave me hes full name ,hes referral's ,1 an agency and 1 independent ,Both haven't seen him in 3 yrs .and hes cell phone was the same number as hes work .He belonged to date-check ,NOT ,P411 NOT ,then when I asked him for hes work number and what he did for a living he started getting angry on the phone that I was asking to many personal questions ,Then I found him on mr.number and beenverified -red flag ,You can always report the bad ones on badboyreport.com

I require anyone without a referecne to email me their full name, age, and the state the reside and a contact number.  I usually can figure out where they work without even asking.  The first thing you do is run a background check on beenverified.com, as I always check to make sure someone doesn't have a violent history.

You may think I am paranoid but last year I was able to advoid a 43 year old man that 3 years prior had been convicted for sexual assualt on a child under 14.

You can use info from been verified to ask the client to confirm a few details and then start googling his name + state and usually you can find out where he is employed or his place of business.  I rather not make a man feel uncomofrtable by asking him where he works unless I can't figure it out on my own.  I also find if you tell clients that you will require ID when you meet, they are less likely to try and lie about who they are.

Ladies be KIND, please return emails and calls for reference inquires.  I give references on guys I haven't seen in years.  Lets all work together and help keep ne another safe.

The only info I keep after I meet a client is his first name, age, cell, email and board handles.  I do not keep any personal information after I meet with a client.