That is a shame!  When you go to all the effort to dress and impress, I always try to admire.  It's the beauty of your style, and should be slowly unwrapped

You have to remember, even the fanciest wrapping paper on the greatest gift you've ever received was just wrapping paper.  

I suspect that the guys, much like me, we so consumed by that delicious package underneath the lingerie that they didn't even notice.  

Take it as a compliment, beautiful.  You are absolutely stunning and delicious.  The lingerie pales in comparison to your sexy.

I am not sure what you mean when you say special attention to your lingerie.  I don't think that you need to pay special attention to your lingerie, and can even get away with dressing casually, but a guy expects that you will be presentable.  You may want to wear a dress with nothing under it and that would be okay, but sweat pants won't cut it.

Gabriella, having just viewed the stunning photos on your site, I have to confess that i would probably commit the same sin. Homeacct hits the nail on the head. If/when i were to see you, I'd probably fail to cite all of the specific reasons for being so excited to see you.  

But now that I hear you mention it, I'll make a point of noticing at least some of the many intricate things my next provider has done to prepare for my visit!