So every year end, I look to splurge and have some hot erotic fun one afternoon (2-4 hours) as a present to myself.  This year I struggling with a dilemma choosing between two options.
1. a nice tantric afternoon... Bath and massage with full service
2. A bdsm afternoon...  Serious bondage, tease denial and full service

Of course, I thought about combing the two, but it's unlikely to find someone who can truly specialize in both.

So I am asking my fellow TER members to help me select this year... Which would you do and do you have any other recommendations?  Also, if you know of anyone that I should consider for either of these scenarios, that would be appreciated as well.