Well I'm basically a (1).  It's difficult enough finding dates in civvie life who aren't crazy. 20 times tougher to find that plus likes to take deep throat!etc. THAT's what's great about providers -- and, within reason, it doesn't much matter if one is crazy (not that most are).

And I think the balance is
1. 25%
2. 50%
3. 25%

Made me excited to read & think naughty thoughts lol!

Maybe becasue I am a little younger than most on this board (maybe, early 40's) and I am not married...  But i just really like many different women.  No offense to the ladies but women are like donuts.....  They are all look and smell very different but all look and taste so delicious...

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As a provider i find that it is usually #3..... a general lack of connection with spouse and or a work schedule that seems to deprive a gent from the much needed intimacy a companion can provide.    This usually leads into #1... which is also a need to express himself sexually in which either a) he has not explored b) lack of c) in a normal dating setting would be considered "socially taboo".  

I agree with you... and yes, I am a #2 too.

Though I don't seek variety, purely for variety's sake.

For instance, when I encounter a provider that I really click with (and I mean pure chemistry), I will often repeat again and again.

There was a time (when I was residing in Tokyo a few years back) that I was seeing the same provider once a week every week for a year (she was seductively sweet), but I was also seeing other providers on the side for variety.

So it's a mix of both for me.