I've received 2-3 invites to 2 star hotels in scary neighborhoods during this week. Does this happen because my rates are not high enough? Is it a quality of my website? Or it's just me, being picky? 😵
What I have come to learn is that wealthy hobbyists aren't the only ones frequenting websites. The internet allows anyone to to access your website photos and email. I think horn dogs are universal and come from various socio-economic brackets. Now I'm sure these guys at these scary hotels were probably time wasters. Maybe make a memo for Outcalls you only go to Midtown, Upper EastSide, TriBeCa, and Chelsea certain parts of UWS and East Village.
Just keep in mind that wading through time wasters is part of the boring, administrative part of our job. The actual fun of meeting with gents is a small percentage of being an escort.
Stay away from 2 star hotels (they have them in NYC?) and bad neighborhoods. Seems like your instincts are serving you just well. Your rates are good. If anything, don't go any higher than 600hr. That's my cutoff. Lol.
Of course, I draw the line of I have concerns about the hygiene or safety of a location - but that doesn't necessarily mean I won't see the guy at another time or at another location. Sometimes folks get screwed when booking through a discount website (it's happened to me!) - or maybe they have been saving up for the playdate, and would rather have more time with you than pay for a more expensive hotel. If the guy's references are good, I'll take the time to sort all this out. Even if the stars don't align for this date, there may be an opportunity at a happier location in the future....
put your policies regarding what type of property/ which neighborhoods you'll travel to when meeting a client for an out call right on your website if it's not already there. My rates are lower than what's listed on your website and I've never encountered that. For me, a 3-star plus hotel will do fine. Others require that whoever would like to see them host in a 4-star plus room. It just depends on your preference.
It might also be helpful to think about if you're down to go to someone's private residence. I learned a most awkward lesson while visiting someone's house. He lived in a luxury condo apartment building in a prime neighborhood, but it was only after I got to his unit after riding the elevator more than 20 floors up that I learned that he was a low-key hoarder and cat man... and I'm severely allergic. o_O
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